Ok so i went a little bit 2 far with my-ex boyfriend and i told my current boyfriend about it. Now that he knos he wants 2 kill my ex! He punched the wall and his knuckles started 2 bleed! I dont want him 2 hurt himself! i think im really bad 4 him but he dissagrees! I dont want him 2 get in trouble either! How can i stop him! I talked him out of it once but idk if i can talk him out of talkin 2 my ex again, I had 2 beg him not 2 talk 2 him!!! How do i stop him!
2007-03-31 03:49:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am NOT 2 much into myself! I dont want my bf getting hurt! He dosent have anger issues he is NEVER violent with me or anybody else! Hes sweet and kind and caring! I just wish he would let it go about my ex! I keep telling him that my ex isnt worth his time and that he has me and my ex dosent anymore!
2007-03-31 04:12:39 · update #1
How can you say that i like men 2 fight over me! I HATE it! With a passion i think girls like that r sick and wrong! They dont deserve any guy at all! OMG i cnt believe u said that! I only want one guy and that guy is my bf! I dont want him hurt and i didnt do that wit my ex on purpose he started it then i was 2 afraid 2 tell him no! Ok r u happy now? Ive told the entire world that im afraid of guys! (this is 4 that one guy that dosent have a name and wrote a really long answer, everyone else thank u.)
2007-03-31 04:16:45 · update #2
No that last detail was 4 that elmer_fu... guy i dont like u! How could u ever say sumthin like that!
2007-03-31 04:18:04 · update #3
I suspect both of you are young. Tell him (and mean it), you will leave him if he does anything. Be careful with this one, he doesn't have a good grip on his emotions. If he cannot control his emotions and physically attacks your ex, he can to the same to you or others. I have taught my daughter the one strike your out rule if a guy verbally or physically abuses her.
2007-03-31 04:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like trouble waiting to happen. Your first mistake was going a bit to far with your ex. your second mistake was telling your current boyfriend. What were you thinking? Or should I say you weren't thinking. You need to let him know that going after your ex for some stupid thing that you did would only create a bigger problem. He could spend serious time in jail or prison, depending on what he does to him. He needs to get rid of you because it sounds to me like you are to much into yourself with no consideration for others. Get a handle on your emotions and your life. Now then, your boyfriend must be wacky also because no girl (women) is worth that much. You are a cheater and he can't control his temper. The two don't go together very well without something drastic happening in the future. Back off and re-evaluate your actions (and life)
2007-03-31 04:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tinkerbell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he is serious about KILLING him that is NOT a good thing!!! He needs help! I would be very scared of him right now. Really you should leave past relationships out of new relationships unless they ask. And just tell him that it wasn't his fault that you wanted it to or whatever. Tell him the truth since oyu have been overly truthful thus far. Let him know that you still care about your ex and there is no reason for him to hurt him and you would not be happy about that. Crying helps too. I would also seek help of a friend and/or family member.
2007-03-31 03:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you are so lost right now. Examine yourself and try to determine why you decide to keep a man who is obviously violent. I don't think it's a big stretch to say that he'll react poorly to you when the wrong situation comes up.
I mean, really..what kind of dumb-butt punches a wall? What kind of dumb-butt dates a dumb-butt that punches walls? Put this situation in the rear-view mirror as soon as possible.
IT JUST OCCURRED TO ME...you one of THOSE manipulative female types that gets their men to fight over them! My brother got put into one of those situations and ended up leaving a man for dead in a street. Broke the guy's upper jaw, left him in a gutter, unconscious. I'm beginning to think it's likely that you are some sick chick getting a thrill out of this situation. You fiddled around with your EX, then made sure to tell your BF about the fiddling, which tells me you're orchestrating this situation to meet your own sick needs. I hope your EX and your current boyfriend get together and determine who the real bad person is in this situation: you. Then proceed to tell the world about your conniving ways.
2007-03-31 03:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmmmmmmmmm
for young men, murder is still the leading cause of death I think, usually its about something like what you describe here
for older folks its heart disease
So were you with the current one when you "went too far" with the other one?
He hit a wall, maybe its a good sign, mostly when men mean business, they hit each other, often weapons are involved.
Thats why women should have only one boyfriend, at a time anyway.
2007-03-31 03:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, most guys have this thing with fighting. They think it makes them look big and that they have to protect us and all that. Tell him you don't want him to hurt either your ex or himself and you don't want them to fight. If he still does it, he doesn't really care much for your feelings and, while you may still want to be with him, it's not good for you if he doesn't listen to what you say and take it in.
Or you could threaten to leave him if he does anything else to hurt himself or your ex.
2007-03-31 03:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by jbyrd990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play him Bloody Valentine by Good Charlotte
2007-03-31 03:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Piper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk your boyfriend up ie gloat about him to him and talk the ex down. If your current beau feels he has nothing to be threatened by there goes the anger and frustration.
2007-03-31 03:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your ex to avoid him as far as possible. reason with him and get him to calm down. and also tell him to stop going to such extremes as hurting himself, otherwise the relationship is being damaged and won't work out any longer. seek help from your girlfriends
(plus i suggest you be wary and take care of yourself as well.)
2007-03-31 04:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Elias C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your BF has mental problems, first the wall then next will be your face, he definately has anger issues and I would get as far away from him as you can
2007-03-31 03:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋