2007-03-31 03:38:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must respect her wishes. It's her body, her choice.
Bugging her about it will make her think you're immature and selfish.
2007-03-31 03:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by redman 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Like never? Ever? Not even if you get married or really serious? That's weird. Well, just don't have sex for now. First of all you should only have sex if you are in a serious relationship and old enough. Ask her the reasons for not having sex and see if in time she will change her mind. Maybe it is the circumstances or she is just not ready yet. Let her know that it can be a very beautiful way to show your love for each other and there isn't anything bad about it. Unless you are wanting it for the wrong reasons.
2007-03-31 03:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep to keep this girlfriend, don't push her into doing anything she's not ready for. Get to know her very well and then let her tell you when, and if, she's ready. If she is the kind that wants to wait until marriage, you are going to have to wait, too. You can marry her, if you love her. Otherwise, you can be patient or find a new girl. Relationships are not about sex. Sex follows friendship, love, and intimacy. It is only truly wonderful when you are committed totally to each other.
2007-03-31 03:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is selfish of you to try and get her too... Respect that she wants to keep her virginity... She shouldn't have to give you sex if she doesn't want to. Being spiritual is a good thing, and I think that you should have some yourself! Sorry, but I can't help but be brutally honest!
2007-03-31 03:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by TheExpert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are never gonna get it unless she feels like it is her time or unless you slip a ring around her finger. Sex is not that important in a relationship. There are other things in life to focus on. Do not pressure her or you will have no girlfriend.
2007-03-31 03:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by sunny17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing if she is not ready you shouldn't pressure her! and when she is ready you will know! and her first time should be romantic and with the person she loves. make it beautiful and amazing! Try roses petals on the bed or some kind of romantic music, and don't try to rush things when it happens it should take more than 15 mins. hope i helped!
2007-03-31 03:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just sex, making love is something that is built upon over time, with trust, faith, love, respect....
when those things are strong making love will follow naturaly for her!
so put all your effort in to those things not in to SEX!
:)
be happy
2007-03-31 03:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by delbolof 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best to respect her wishes. If she doesn't want sex, then that should be final, until she is ready or asks for it.
2007-03-31 03:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't come first....there are many other things that come first in a relationship...
Maybe she wants to make love after marriage...
2007-03-31 03:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
never force her.
by forcing nither u nor she will able 2 enjoy the intercourse
slow and steady wins the race is the best policy tat can be opted here!
just try 2 tempt her??
by using ur **** or her boobs
2007-03-31 03:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by **vinny** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept her or find a new girl. Those are the only two realistic answers.
2007-03-31 03:42:24 · answer #11 · answered by Respeck Knuckles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋