My mom and I aren't that close. My friends are really close to their moms and I'm kinda jealouse. So how do I become closer with her?
2007-03-31 03:13:13 · 9 answers · asked by Lena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Depends. What things does she like? Do you have any interests in common? Try just spending some time with her. Actually listen when she tells you something. Make her listen to you when you say something important. Try to find something she loves and read up on it. You'll find if you reach out to her, she will respond. Most times relationships take work. If you just let it be, it will slip away.
Often you can find a class that you are both interested in. Any common bond will help improve your relationship.
2007-03-31 03:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ann S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. Get your focus off your friends first. Then spend some time with your mom - that is the very best way to do it. What does she like to do? Do it. Where does she like to go? Take her there. What food does she like? Get it for her. What hobbies does she have? Do them with her. Make her feel special and spend time with her at home or on the phone. Good luck
2007-03-31 03:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by FUTUREBOY76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know.
i'm not close with my mom (i never meet her for nearly 2 years,and we talk on the phone sometime,but it's very boring conversation.),so i dont'know how to become close with mom.
but one thing i know is u are not the only one in the world that don't close with your mom. there are many people that don't by many reason. so don't need to be jealous your friends.
2007-03-31 05:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by kikk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her ,,anything will do,,,,hey mom,,what kinda bird is that???,can i help with dinner??why not clean up around the house sweep,,dust,,etc...open up to her when you have a problem,,things like that will help alot...also on the funny side,,,take a step in her direction,,that will bring you closer to her...ha,ha....ya need to do things with her and for her...when she doesnt feel well,,gee mom,,im sorry,,,can i help????try these things and more will come later,,,hope it all comes together for you both......
2007-03-31 03:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by herb ster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being very much close to her, by sharing what u had experienced in ur daily days.spend some time with her , do the things which she likes, when she is present.ok, dear?
2007-03-31 03:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by marina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through this everyday as my son wants nothing to do with me.
try telling your mom what you did that day, give her a hug and give her a kiss once in awhile, and most important tell her you love her.
2007-03-31 03:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Carolyn P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a good talk. There has to be a reason for this.
2007-03-31 03:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start by sharing your daily experiences and then eventually you can confide your concerns, etc. closeness comes naturally. maybe sharing quality time with her is all you need.
2007-03-31 03:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find somthing you both like
2007-03-31 03:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋