Now she is telling everyone that she is my girlfriend
and that we are a couple eventhough I never said
or agreed to anything like that. I want to keep seeing her but I want her to stop saying that. What are some of the ways that I can stop her??
She is a very good lover so I don't want to make her mad.
2007-03-31 02:39:40 · 23 answers · asked by Walter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is a good lover why don't you want to be with her?
2007-03-31 02:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by かわいい愛朱利 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should respect this girl and not treat her the way you have. How did you get her to have sex with you in the first place. Did you tell her a heap of lies to make her think she was special to you.
It is rare that you find a female who is willing to have sex with no emotions involved.
Those emotions don't evolve without you having said something to her first to make her believe that you are honourable to her. Please do the right thing and tell her now how you really feel. Save her poor heart from breaking too hard and her having an ounce of respect left for you.
2007-03-31 09:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by happy5campers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
What are you telling this girl in bed?
that you love her?
that you want to be with her?
You have been banging this girl for a while so she assumes you are a couple.
why wouldn't she??
If you dont want to be a couple with her, you have to let her know now before you really break her heart later.
2007-03-31 10:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparantly while she was "giving you" sex, she thought you were giving her a relationship in return. let her know she is not your gf, and that you only like her for the sex... then you won't have to worry about her saying anything about you to anyone (except when she talks about this guy she used to take sex from)
2007-03-31 09:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by kelannde 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you think that she's a great in bed....but you don't want a serious relationship with her. Tell her that you don't think you guys are compatible in that way but would love to be friends instead.
2007-03-31 10:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by SuperChic3955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you treat her like a girlfriend, then she'll assume she is. You have not been honest with her about your feelings for her, so she thinks this is a regular relationship and not a booty call. You need to tell her, she will probably dump you.
2007-03-31 09:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would only accept making love if I were in a relationship....sex does not come first...people who are mature don't put sex first....
I suggest that you take a step back and start to take things slowly...
2007-03-31 09:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship style that you are comfortable with is a sexual one with no strings attached. Make this clear to her. Also let her know that she is great sexually but that is your line of separation. If she gets difficult, let her know that you will start to inform those she tells your bf/gf, you will point out that she is nothing but a good piece of ***.
2007-03-31 09:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women like to be always a really important part of men life,even more when they have sex.Talk clear with her,tell her that you only want to have sex with her .Be honest with her.If you do not want to have a serious relationship with her,better is to forget about her.We can not play with feelings.
2007-03-31 09:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont make her mad , accept it , g/freind is an open catergory , it is only a catergory , and shouldnt change anything from how it is , unless she says so , so brush it away , and dont worry bout it
2007-03-31 09:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋