humm.. if for some reason you HAVE to meet your X everyday ....?

Question

and its next to impossible to avoid this situation... also .... you feel you are thru with him but seeing him everyday just presses the wrong button . he is married so are you ... but .... if /when he gets flirty with his wife .. you feel awkward ... oh boy can someone tell me a way to not get affected by this person????

Answer 1

You are married, who cares what the ex does? Just because you see him doesn't mean you have to talk to him, stand next to him, etc.

Answer 2

let her go , get a new love , so you can move on , there are many of us who have been there , so dont feel alone with it , try your best , the first few will probably not meet your expectations but you will progress , and find you forget about the x , because you've been there - done that, and face it you need to move on to save yourself from the sadness of holding on to something which is not going to work .. it is like a barn has burnt down , and you stand there hoping that it will magically be fine .. it wont!

Answer 3

if you are married and your ex is as well, then what's the problem. obviously, you parted ways for a reason, and if what he does still matters to you, then you obviously haven't dealt with some issues as to why you broke up in the first place.
Believe it or not, if you've loved some one at one point int your life, you will always have some sort of feeling towards them,, even if you never see them again...good luck

Answer 4

Well your both married, you cant (well sorta) do anythinga bout it so i guess you could just live with it. I mean you dated and its over,, get on with ur life

Answer 5

Treat him like a stranger.

Answer 6

just completely ignore him act like he doesnt even exist or his wife thats what i do with my ex

Answer 7

you need to think about how much you love your husband . your husband in who you need to be paying attention to , NOT the X.