2007-03-30 22:47:22 · 19 answers · asked by odade11 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Express to him your disappointment and never trust him again. Even the hardest experiences have something to teach us.
2007-03-30 22:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE TAKE THIS ADVICE . . . .
i'm not looking for the extra points on being the one with the best answer, but i have had plenty of experience with these types of people.
there is nothing that you can do (unless you beat some ***- which in the end you are still betrayed and your business is out there) except take a look at the situation, and fault yourself for putting something out there that you didn't want to go any further than where you put it. i say this because in this day and age, loyalty is a hard quality to find in someone. no matter how much you want to trust a person, there is no garuntee that he or she will be 100% with ya. you may even be 100% with them but everyone isn't the same. all you can do is use this to your advantage and not tell the person **** else that you don't want to be spread. no matter how bad you wish the person was one way, the fact is, they aren't. you don't even have to stop socializing with the person, just use your past experiences as a stepping stone and don't let him or her know your business. don't do anything around that person as well that you do not want anyone else to know about. i have had it all happen to me and it has hurt in the past, but a lesson is repeated until learned. a person (in my eyes) is . . . . or they "aint" there is no in between. therefore, there's nothing to do with one who cannot hold water or one who betrays you except but to treat them as they are. as long as you are aware of how a person is, how can you be affected by their actions? deal with each and everyone you come in contact with as they are, and you'll be fine.
2007-03-31 06:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by LEXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from someone like that, why stick around to have it happen again? You're certainly not going to change someone like that. Be careful who you confide in deary, if someone comes to you and gossips about others, then you had better believe they go and gossip to others about you as well.
Big people talk about *Ideas.*
Mediocre people talk about *Things*
Small people talk about other *People*
To keep these thoughts in mind will help you make sure to find better company to be with in the future. Granted, there is no guarantee that people in the other two categories won't betray a secret, you need to spend some time to make sure you think a person is trustworthy, but you will find better company for yourself overall.
2007-03-31 05:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive them and move on.... but be careful the next time you have secrets that need to be kept... forgiving a person doesnt mean you become silly nor give them more chances to betray you...
2007-03-31 05:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kenz K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,,, do not share any secret at all especially your darkest secret although he/she is your best pal.
My best pal used the secrets I shared with to counter attack on me. Not only once my best pal betrayed me once,, few times.. I was so fed up that I totally refuse to see and take her calls..despite her "so-so" apology. I found that she cannot be trusted..
2007-03-31 06:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Secrets are meant to be kept secret. So if you tell your friend a secret it is no longer a secret. Get it ?
So in my opinion, keep your secrets to yourself.
Dont blame others.
2007-03-31 06:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by sting 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't keep a secret? I wont entrust you with anything I want kept private.
Betray me, and it will be as though you never existed.
Forgiveness is not a strong point with me.
2007-03-31 05:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by Orac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep secrets or tell secrets
2007-03-31 05:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're keeping secrets, it's because you have something to hide.
What are you hiding?
2007-03-31 06:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three can keep a secret if two are dead.
2007-03-31 07:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by unknownsoldier1st 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋