My boyfriend is very religious. He refuses to try rear love that I've wanted to try for the first time. He says it is not the "right thing to do". He also doesn't want to use that "yucky gooey stuff". I told him he could do it dry. But, he is so caring that he says he doesn't want to cause harm to me. I don't want to anger him. What should I do?
2007-03-30 12:49:29 · 18 answers · asked by MaryTasty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your rear is in all acutality, a cespool that removes waste from your body. If that is not a good enough reason to understand why he wouldn't want to go there, you need to just do it yourself. Not wanting to put your weiner in a cespool doesn't seem like a religious restriction, it seems pretty damn logical. If you really need to have you rear loved, use something other than him, then you can still do it together, and it won't be as germ filled an experience. Good luck with what ever you're gonna do.
2007-03-30 12:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Religion forbids you to have sex at all with your boyfriend. So consider yourself lucky if he does that and also consider him not very religious. If his lack of interest in "rear love" has a religious origin then he has presented you with a contrast.
Here is the truth: He has a hang up about rear love and it isn't a religious reason at all. Maybe he just thinks it's nasty???
2007-03-30 19:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tadow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Religions, typically, are based on the typical... and aren't too flexible with taboos like rear love.
So yes, Religion forbids it.
If you're having problems with your partner about this, you can only expect two things:
a. You'll both talk about it. He'll get over it. He'll give it to you.
OR
b. You either get used to not having it - ever. Or you find yourself a man who can do it for you.
2007-03-30 19:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mario E 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SCREW RELIGION..... trust me... ive never heard a girl wanting it (rear) because all it is for you is a laugh ... he should want it cuz its almost better than normal... i say that you should tell him that you think you should do it that way and if not give him time... maybe hes afraid of getting your poo on his thingy haha
2007-03-30 19:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by linkin_brandon973 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never go there and neither would my husband. Someone brought it up one day and my husband said that it was 2 inches away from being gay. That is just nasty. Plus, if you end up torn inside your bottom, you will end up eith a horrible infection that left untreated could kill you.
2007-03-30 20:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what religion.
Islaam, Judaism, and Mainstream Christianity ALL allow oral and anal sex between married couples. However none of the monotheistic religions approve of doing it before marriage, with the same sex, or with an animal.
2007-03-30 19:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jim_atthedrive-in 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend should adopt the same philosophy as I do: Don't bother asking such a question until he's finished giving you what you want.
2007-03-30 19:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a toy and put it while you are having sex. Make sure it's at least as large as his. After he should see that you are pretty serious about it and that it isn't going to hurt you.
Rear love... good term hehe
2007-03-30 19:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
most states have laws against sodomy
Many people do not like it some men find it a homosexual act
It is painful especially dry you can get ripped and torn there
becareful with your body
2007-03-30 19:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl u need a real guy.n no he wont go to hell,as long as both agree to the act of love..hes lucky and dosent even know it..gl
2007-03-30 19:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋