its me again i am more confused now i just recieved an email from this same guy and he said he has very deep feelings for me and his other girl. and he also put in the message that i am beautiful on the outside and the inside i don't think i am i am a size 16 and 92kg can anyone help.
2007-03-30 12:47:08 · 15 answers · asked by deepone36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
need a picture to be sure, but you can be very attractive at 92 kg
2007-03-30 12:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Catman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like to share a guy with another girl? When he said he had "deep feelings" for you (AND) another girl....a red flag should have went up.
Honey, he is NOT the only guy in this world. He is NOT the only guy you'll ever meet. Do you really believe you'll never meet another guy???
Size 16.........AND? 92kg......AND? So what.......you're healthy. You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful. You'd be surprised of how many big beautiful women are out there and all the guys that prefer curves than.....um, (I don't want to say bones - but I think you know what I mean).
Flip the script: lets say you told a guy that you had "deep feelings" for him (and) another guy. That picture just doesn't seem right. Unless you're okay with it --- he'd try to see you both. Theres way too many diseases out there - its up to you on what you're willing to accept.
But keep in mind - you settle for second best -- thats exactly what you'll get. You deserve better than that - wake up. Otherwise - you're setting yourself up to get hurt. You want to be happy - you want a guy that wants YOU and ONLY YOU. Doesn't that sound (a little) better?
Good luck sweety.
2007-03-30 19:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what the story is but if this guy has feelings for two girls at the same time just let him be. Don't conform because you don't feel attractive. Who the heck says you can't be beautiful being a size 16 and 92kg!?! What's wrong with you girl!?!
If you like him back, let him know but also let him know that you are not to be screwed with. He needs to organize his thoughts and emotions, and make a decision.
Please take care, success!
2007-03-30 19:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants to be beautiful, but what is it about a person that really makes her beautiful? The truth is that it's not any one thing. Beauty is a combination of many qualities that give pleasure to the senses or mind. Your personality, sense of humor, and compassion for others are a large part of what makes you beautiful. The secret to being beautiful is feeling beautiful. It is more about inner qualities than physical appearance. You may not love all of your qualities, but if you see yourself as a strong person with many goals and talents, you will begin to feel more comfortable with yourself. Feel good about yourself and let your positive attitude shine.
Sometimes it can be a challenge to remember that beauty is about what's on the inside. Don't measure yourself against the media's unrealistic ideals and don't compare yourself to other girls either.
You are a unique person. You'll never be someone else and no one else will ever be you.
2007-03-30 19:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Regina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has feelings for more than one girl, you should tell him to drop you a line when he quits being confused on who he wants to be with.
That is unless this relationship is simply a friendly one on the Internet and nothing more. Then dating is not part of the equation and his personal life is his business and only his to worry about.
You must have more confidence in yourself. People can be tagged by others as being too short, too tall, too skinny, too large, too (fill in the blank), and it just shows how simple-minded they are by trying to create all kinds of dumb drama.
If you feel the guy truly feels deeply for you, then have him show it by making a commitment to you. If he won't, then he is simply a windbag.....at that isn't drama, that's the truth!
2007-03-30 19:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what your a size 16. What does that mean? Don't allow your size to make you settle for nonsense. Low self esteem plays a role when one feels she/he isn't good enough to be loved.....you are. Don't SHARE no man. Think about it this way, if you share him and his girlfriend finds out....who do you think he would choose when the sh*t hits the fan? Don't worry, and stop letting your size determine your self worth.
2007-03-30 19:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless what size you are ,I don't know you but you probably are a beautiful person on the outside one thing Ive learned in relationships is don't let any man change who you are
2007-03-30 19:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Miss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember love to love someone else, one must love ones self first. And unless you are into the sharing I would steer clear of guys who already have someone else. There is always jealousy involved somewhere down the road. Sounds like trouble.......
2007-03-30 19:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by cheyenne29646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the operative work in your question is AND. There is no AND, ok, either he wants you or he doesn't. Don't waste time on him, drop the loser and take time to figure out what you want. I suggest the book "The Rules", get it, read it, and live by those rules. Don't be a doormat.
2007-03-30 19:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, what's the confusion? Online guy playing with your emotions to tickle his little friend? Ignore the fool. There are better bunnies to play with.
2007-03-30 19:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aaaawwww...I think I know how that type of email goes around....because there are fools who believe in them. Why don't you play with his feelings as well? Just make sure you don't get caught in your own game though.
2007-03-30 19:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by Batman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋