OK, so WHY DO ALL GUYS LIKE GIRLS FOR JUST THIER BOOBS AND BUTT AND A SMALL WAIST?why cant somee guys like girls for thier personality? i mean i may have some BIG BOOBS and a small waist, why can't guys like girls for thier personality? i mean why do they like girls, period? what is guys look for i a girl?
2007-03-30 12:41:57 · 31 answers · asked by Kiara R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are guys that will like you for your personality! Trust me. You have just been meeting the wrong ones...
2007-03-30 12:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because men think about sex every few seconds. Women have a lot more on their mind. Most men want that "perfect" woman with the 34-26-36 size. If men want a good, wholesome relationship, yeah they should look at more than just boobs and butt. But that is like the first thing they see other than your face and if you have a small waist, that just adds more to that "perfect" woman, which there is no such thing. But very good question!!
2007-03-30 22:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, surveys have shown that most guys prefer women with average to small size breasts; that not many care about butts; and that tolerance for people with bigger waists has grown significantly. On the other hand, first impressions are highly colored by appearance. Women judge guys by their shoes, and many women are motivated by the scent of wallet. The shallowness cuts both ways.
Seeing a person as he/she really is takes time, and some people can't do it at all. Have a little faith in people - not everyone is shallow and callous.
2007-03-30 19:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say I have no idea. I seem to have big boobs and a big butt, so most guys go for looks in my school. If it was personality I believe I would have had more than one boyfriend in my life (not to be conceited, but I'm told I have a great personality). They like girls because (I heard this from a friend) "God made people to be like Adam and Eve, not Adam and STEVE."
2007-03-30 19:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your looks attract us your personality keeps us we are attracted to something about you usually it is not that you have big boobs but that you have an appropriately fitting or cut shirt or blouse that shows you have the rack. we may be just in lust when we first start talking to you but we do listen and then we decide do we just want to sleep with you once or really get to know you. an annoying girl with big boobs is still an annoying girl. a stupid girl with an ok body is still a stupid girl. most guys really can't stand talking to a stupid person no matter what gender for to long.
2007-03-30 20:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big part if it is that the aggressive guys who are likely to really go after girls may be more likely to look at physical appearance. Guys like me who focus more on intelligence and personality may be more likely to be on the shy side. I usually wait for girls to approach me rather than the other way around.
As guys get older, more of them start to see that looks aren't quite as important, so time could help as well.
You could try out some of the online networking / dating sites. Shy guys who aren't as obsessed with appearance may be easier to find online than in real life.
2007-03-30 19:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by SpaceSquirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical apearence is the first thing anyone notices. When you go into a job interview do you dress up and look nice or do you show up a mess? A woman that takes care of herself and holds her self well is going to be noticed weather they want to or not. The second thing is personality. Believe it or not any man who is looking for a girl to date doesn't only look at her frame. If someone is good looking, but a bore, or anoying to them there appearence often becomes distasteful. A woman who is fearless and willing to learn new things as well as being open minded and easy to get along with is another thing. A woman who stands up for herself and shows kindness instead of belittling shows leatership. Guys look for all the good qualities, but yes everyone even woman look at appearence first.
2007-03-30 19:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by troubble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys like girls for their personality. Although if you have a very nice body you are going to get a LOT of attention from guys who just want to use you for sex.
And with all that attention floating around, decent guys aren't going to approach you. You have to go to them!
When you look good, you have a great power of choice. Most girls choose wrong, though. Thus all the whining about guys being pigs and such.
2007-03-30 19:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All they are looking for is to have sex with someone, they don't care who, where or how. They just want to get some. They are stupid enough to do it without condoms, get girls pregnant, catch and transmit diseases. They're not that smart. Another thing about them is that they are visual, and they have no idea, unless they work in the industry, that the photos they are looking at and bombarded with are not actual snapshots, they are productions, made to look how someone wants, like movies or paintings. What they see in pictures is what they think they can have in real life. Don't you know their favorite book is "Go Dog Go" because it has pictures?!?
2007-03-30 19:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that hon.. Trust me, I was thinking the same thing until I met my hunny... Not all guys like a small waist and big boobs!!! There are guys out there who like women for their personalities and their other assets.... It took me what seemed like forever to find the one man who doesn't care what I look like in the morning, he still thinks I am beautiful... Just because he sees past the physical and goes into who I am, what I like and all the rest of me... Not saying that it'll take forever for you to find him, but I honestly would say that for you to find the true HIM, it should take you awhile.. Especially if you are still in hs.... Just keep asking q's of the male community and soon you will figure it all out when it comes to finding HIM... Hon, trust me you really don't wanna rush anything!!! :) Luv, ME!!!
2007-03-31 03:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by babyangeleyez17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only horny teenage boys cannot see beyond those things. As you grow, you will find that immature boys focus on the visual stimulation, while men focus on the fun, conversations, and relationship, while also being able to enjoy the visual stimulation too. Also, guys who are very focused on the visual, in my experience, end up being complete *******, while the guy who is not the cutest boy in school, but is willing to have a conversation with you over something in depth, will be the boy you will end up with forever.
2007-03-30 19:48:12 · answer #11 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋