My ex boyfriennd is going out with my best friend but i want to be supportive but i am not quite over him.
2007-03-30 12:41:46 · 8 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl you live your life...i give you props for trying to be the bigger person in this situation..but if it bothers you... you should let her know. I think you might even need some distance to help you not think about this situation. You should focus on yourself and not them..and it can be hard when you're around them so much. If you still want to be supportive, but it's bothering you..you should think about having some distance among them...get your life back together by doing things you like doing..feeling good about yourself...THE FOCUS should be on you...only then may you find that you're probably better off without your ex. And your best friend should not be dating your ex period...that's just awkward. I really don't think you can have a sincere best friend relationship..but if you can...all the power to you.
2007-03-30 12:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by PB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well back in high school i had this girl friend and my best friend and her almost went all the way at a party cuz they were wasted beyond repair and for the longest time i felt like i was betrayed/backstabbed by the two people in the world who mattered most to me. over time i went back to being with that girl and this guy is still my best friend. now i know thats not text book happenings on my part, i think the average person would have started hating both or at least the best friend and tried to work things out, but now that thats all behind me i think you should think about what matters more.....how much you care about that guy and ur best friend and want them in your life, or the fact that ur "best" friend doesnt respect you enough to realize u still have feelings for that guy and still went and got with him. now im assuming u had a serious relationship with this guy and kinda "put your mark on him". if u only had a minor realationship with this guy and not much history at all i wouldnt stress it too much and try to just move on. whatever it is that happens i hope that its what makes you happy, goodluck
2007-03-30 19:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by sukistaquisukimapi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first your friend isn't your best anymore, she broke the number one rule don't date ex-boyfriends. Since you want to continue friendship with her then hide your feelings because the boyfriend is going to do some competitio, and try to put jealousy.
2007-03-30 19:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend is no friend to you. Dump your friend and move on. Time is the only remedy but having her around will be bad for your self esteem. She betrayed you and is not your friend. Maybe her flirting is why he is your ex.
2007-03-30 19:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice best friend. What a way to make things uncomfortable.
2007-03-30 19:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your best friend because she should've checked that before she started going with him to see if you were okay with it.
2007-03-30 19:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try and get over him but if you really cant then mabe you should confront her and tell her that it bothers you. if she is a good friend then she will back off.
2007-03-30 19:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by ballerina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new best friend/boyfriend and 4get them...keep it movin, sugar, don't get bogged down in the past...good luck!!
2007-03-30 19:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Aurora Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋