i call myself concerned wife because my fiance calls me his wife and i call him husband. we are so far from each other and we communicate thru internet on line everyday, twice a day. he is working on the fiance visa but it will take a very long time before everything gets approved.
he tells me all not to worry about him sleeping or even just kissing any other woman coz he will never do anything to harm our relationship and that he loves me very much. is it possible for a man not to cheat considering the fact that we are so far from each other and therefor i can't give him the satisfaction of missing and wanting each other?
2007-03-30 12:37:19 · 16 answers · asked by simple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is possible. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Unless he's one of those hump anything that moves guys, most guys cheat as a way of finding intimacy. If you remain emotionally close, he will likely remain physically faithful. Congratulations on your impending marriage.
2007-03-30 12:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been with my girlfriend for 10 years (spacious1only1) and I have never thought about another woman or even felt there was another woman out there better for me than her I have NEVER cheated on her and i would never consider it. So coming from a man Yes it is possible for a man not to cheat on his woman. There are still some good men out there just trust your man like you have been doing and you will be okay.
2007-03-30 12:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a man really wants to be faithful he can. You just need to keep the communication lines open between the two of you so that you can prevent him from going to that option. Really focus on trusting him. If he starts doing odd things that he hasn't been doing during the course of your relationship then you raise an eyebrow.
2007-03-30 12:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible. If you have found a man that can acutally control himself, you should celebrate because most men aren't that strong. You have to decide if you fell he is truthful in what he says to you, and if you really trust him. If you have any doubts, then there's your answer, you really don't feel you can trust him, and you should end it. Just because he calls you his wife doesn't mean anything. He can call you Christy Brinkley, but just calling you that won't make you a supermodel, or feel like you're 5'9". Listen to your instincts and give yourself credit, you're smart!
2007-03-30 12:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible of course. whatever you think is cheating may not be the same as what someone else thinks is cheating.
it entirely depends on your life experience, growing up, etc.
im in love with a guy long distance. if he was my fiance (i think the relationship we had was only one-sided fantasy of mine) but if he was my fiance, i might imagine that he is talking to other women...half the planet is women. it wouldnt make me jealous. i dont even go beyond thinking about flirtatious situations because it would be all in my mind...not what is happening....and so assuming something becomes your problem, your image, your worry. and it could be for nothing. If Im in love with someone, I dont think about such a thing...because that person is ultimately responsible for his or her actions. to worry or to assume about possibilities isnt happy thinking. I would worry more if he doesnt continue contact with you, if he doesnt communicate with you regularly.
that is a real action ...that is real, a real worry. its not what he might be doing....worry about what he is actually doing. he's keeping contact with you, loving you, reassuring you by remaining constant in your life. smile and be happy. peace
2007-03-30 12:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is possible for someone to cheat BUT it varies from person to person. Have you ever been tempted by something that you just couldn't refuse. I have been tempted many of us have been. It's up to the inner strength inside of us to say NO to temptation.
What you don't know won't hurt you and what he doesn't know won't hurt you.
2007-03-30 12:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is possible but i also think that everyone did once cheat on someone they loved, but if he did ever it was in the past and that if he was caught that it is almost 98.2% possible that he will never cheat on u. what can i say, you make a mistake and you learn from it.
2007-03-30 12:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by i love NOLA! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering his type of nature, you can trust him or maybe not. your choice.
Doubt leads to serious consequences. You should give him the benefit of the doubt.
Someday or the other the truth will pop out anyway.
2007-03-30 12:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by Regnex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible! Are you cheating on him? No? Then he should be capable of not cheating on you. I would trust him on this matter. If you can't trust him now, how will you trust him when you're married?
2007-03-30 12:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to men not to cheat on their girlfriends, wives or partners.
BUT personally, when the person is in another country I wouldnt count on him being faithfull...
2007-03-30 12:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋