me and my ex broke up about 9 weeks ago.
we had to brake up so it wasnt like one of us dumped each other.
he said he would like me forever.
but then about 5 days ago he had to move to georgia!
I still care for him SO much and cant stop tinking about him!
wut do i do?
2007-03-30 12:30:50 · 7 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm guessing you're still pretty young...
You have two options, right? Forget him, or keep in touch.
You might write to him to keep the connection alive, especially if the two of you get along very well and have common interests. Afer all, you never know where the two of you will end up one day. But if you choose to do this, please keep in mind that one or both of you very well might eventually choose to start a relationship with someone else - and if it happens to be him to do that, you'd have to accept it.
If you think that would be too painful, you would be better off stopping it here and keeping your fond memories of him.
I'd say if you're still in school and yourdays of being able to choose where you live are still far off, you might consider the second option - after all, you're going to meet plenty of other guys!
Whatever you choose, best of luck!
2007-03-30 12:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Exhaustus Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try to re-kindle your relationship long-distance, but this is likely the beginning of the end as a couple. The good news is that you can still maintain a great friendship. In the mean time move on.
2007-03-30 19:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, please. He moved to GA, and how long do you think it will take him to forget about you? Get the book "The Rules" and read it. It will teach you how to never be in a situation like this again. You can be a strong strong girl, and you can have a menu of guys to choose from, you just need the right tools. Good luck to you.
2007-03-30 19:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is tragic and i know how it feels....many girls have or will go through those changes but u just have to move on and live life...maybe u will meet him again someday and you will become great friends but for now just try to live ur life and focuse on your goals
2007-03-30 19:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him!! Just because he moved doesn't mean that you can't still be a couple.
2007-03-30 19:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen babe hes gone he has likley forgot all about you, so get a new boy
2007-03-30 19:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go it might hurt but trust me u will get over it.
2007-03-30 19:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by nia's #1 girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋