i went on a website that let you get back in touch with old school friends, well this guy had a crush on me from 5th grade till 10th grade, i didnt know until 20years later, like 2 months ago, for two months we were talking future, then out of the blue his 17 yr daughter found him, now he has a chance to meet his daughter, the girl he had the fling with is a old co llege pal, one thing lead to another, her parents moved away because they didnt want those to togeather, his 17 year old looked him up, i love the ideal that he finally can know his daughter, but he said he dont want to be friends with me because his daughter is his univers and that he will hurt anyone just to make her happy, we are talking 15 years, i ask why didnt the mom or him try to make things work after they grew up he said the mom never let him know were they were,first, before all this ,we were talking ( us) now he dump me like old gum wow, tell me is there room for me,a friend,he said he love me to much...
2007-03-30 11:55:39 · 3 answers · asked by wisper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hunny,dont mess with no guy who is busy with kids that are under 18! Kids are a #1 priority!! Just wait it out okay?
2007-03-30 11:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just not into you. He wants to break up with you and is not man enough to tell you so he is using his kid as an excuse. He sounds like an immature loser. Be glad you are rid of him. Actions speak louder than words. His crush years ago was probably just a big lie to turn you on to him.
2007-03-30 12:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did care for you. But he loves his dauughter and finnally gets to be with her.
2007-03-30 11:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by apple513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋