i met this great guy(or so i thought) 3 week ago when he moved into my condo complex.i would run into him all the time(he lived next door)and he would tell me all about his son,work and all ways asked about my life.i would see this very attractive girl coming and going and just thought she was his gf.one night he asked me over for a movie and "made his move" when i stopped him and asked what his "gf" would think he looked at me like he was confused and said oh her shes just an old friend not my gf.well i believed him but 3 weeks later i found out(not from him) not only was he datting her but left his 1st wife for her 4 mons earlier.so why would he lie to me about her?shes more attractive than i am so why risk losing her over me?i mean i live right next to him i could just tell her what hes been doing behind her back and blow his cover.
2007-03-30 11:51:47 · 18 answers · asked by heatherlee567 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he lied to you because he wanted to get in your pants. don't be silly. ALL guys want 1 thing and it's not your dazzling charm or your uncanny wit
2007-03-30 11:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an azzhole, that is why he lied to you. He wanted to get some. Why would you even want to get involved in this drama. If dude left his wife for this chick, this chick should know he is a cad. As cute as she may be, she is not that bright.
That said, whats going on between them is not your concern. Thank the Lord you found out who he really is before you got involved and leave him totally alone.
2007-03-30 11:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's just a jerk. He cheated to be with his current girlfriend. And he's still trying to cheat... My advice is to keep your distance, because dating a cheater (who definitely can NOT say "It won't happen again" and it be true) can only lead to heartbreak. You sound like an intelligent person, and I promise there is no guy out there worth losing yourself over. You say she's more attractive--beauty is in the eye of the beholder; but you are obviously smarter in that you haven't gotten involved with him. They say the grass is always greener on the other side....
2007-03-30 11:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by bettyellen18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like to have their cake and eat it too. It is probably fun to have a girl on the side and a main one. It shows he is not a good guy. Prime example-he left his wife for this girl.
2007-03-30 11:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by travelinbianca16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charge you with assault. That's the truth of getting bodily with somebody. Would now not slump to your degree to react. No longer valued at my time. You sound like anyone who also can not cope or control your possess anger/problems. It takes maturity to have self control, to treat men and women with appreciate and original kindness. You might have critical disorders and need aid.
2016-08-10 22:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by anzovino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just thinking about getting some action from you, not about the consequences of his action. Sounds like a real winner of a guy.
2007-03-30 11:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you for the same reason he left his wife for another woman. Because a dog is a dog.
2007-03-30 11:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH BOY, YEAH, HE A ******* WHORE IF YOU ASK ME. SOOOOOOO GIVE HIM SOME MEDICINE. WALK OVER AND WHEN YOU KNOW HIS GIRLFRIEND IS IN THERE SHOW UP IN A REALLY SEXY OUTFIT AND A PIZZA AND A BOTTLE OF WINE. HE ANSWERS THE DOOR AND YOU ACT REALLY CUTE AND SWEET AND BARGE IN AND DO THIS" WAIT, IS SHE GONNA JOIN IN OUR THREESOME? WOW WHAT A HOT CHICK! LAST NIGHT YOU AND I AND JESSICA HAD SUCH A HOT TIME....OH IS THIS A BAD TIME?" THEN LET THE **** ALL FALL DOWN AND LEAVE GRACEFULLY.
2007-03-30 11:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a dirt bag. He lied to get what he wanted. Stay away from him.
2007-03-30 11:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men out here have no clue about a conscience, next time follow your senses ,and remember people sometimes don't care if he had a girlfriend or not , i am glad to know that you have enough respect to let that tack-less hoe alone, ooh excuse me,....................... i lost my manners, ,,,,,ok i'm back
2007-03-30 12:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by wisper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋