I had this guy in for the kill, all I had to do was set up a time and date to get everything going. Then I went overboard with asking him for favors, (I didnt want to seem too desperate) and now he thinks I'm using him for stuff.
Now what do I do...should I just come clean and admit I did that only to see him?
I'm such a relationship retard.
2007-03-30 11:21:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you say "in for the kill" do you mean ready to be royally screwed? Sounds like he is correct and you are a user.
2007-03-30 11:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least you admit to your mistake, and I think it's reather sweet that you were asking him the favors just in order to see him. I say come clean with that fact to him & in the process, let him know that you really like him, would love to have a relationship with him, etc. etc. and hopefully He'll be flattered & try you out :D
If not, though, don't be surprized. Walk away from it & chalk it up as a learning experience. Abusing a guy for favors before a relationship has even been established is NOT the best way to tune into his soft side & charm him. i DO wish you the best of luck,though!
2007-03-30 11:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Spiral_Dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it became dropping the "I" portion of me. I forgot that I had the capability and the means to stand on my very own legs, proud and tall... That I had a voice of my very own and that the total worldwide became waiting to take heed to it :D. whilst my ex broke up with me, i became shattered and broken. It became an extremely stable element because of the fact i found out that i ought to in no way be too based on each and each guy or woman, and that my desires are what i'm right here for specifically. That courting led to such airborne dirt and dust and crap, friendship looks the only clean element in existence... and that i purely wanna save it that way. I even have amazing associates, and all my stress is long gone. i will experience the version popular, i'm plenty extra suitable and plenty extra stable. journey is a tough instructor; she provides the tests first and the lesson afterwards. yet surprisingly, this technique of coaching sinks the lesson deeper into our blood better than any way else.
2016-12-15 12:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask him for favors? You did it to see him but you said you could already see him, just set up the time and place. You can tell him the truth and hope he'll accept your apolgy, cuz it does look like you were using him, Why did you assume he owed you favors? You don't treat b/f or g/f like that. Not if you want to keep them. So apologize, as sincerely as possible.
2007-03-30 11:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by ann m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! Definetly be honest. Tell him why you did all that asking for favors! He will probably laugh and think you are cute. Just from now on dont ask for favors unless its necessary. Tell him how much you really like him and that you were nervous. That you needed an excuse to see him, so you wouldnt be stuck asking him out.
2007-03-30 11:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you are a dud when it comes to relationships but I know you have the guts to change that. Just come clean. This won't ruin your life & future.
2007-03-30 11:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually kill them once you get them? That might be a bit of a turn off for some guys.
2007-03-30 11:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you kept asking for favors, then you WERE making yourself look desperate. Just tell him you never intented to use him & that's not what you were doing. ♥
2007-03-30 11:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well aleast you have learned a lesson! Do you have job? If you do and don't make a lot of money he might not feel bad about helpling you out sometimes?
2007-03-30 11:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, man! Tell him the truth. I'm sure he is going to find it flattering. Guys are shallow like that. I'm sure things will work out.
2007-03-30 11:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by luvmrtnz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋