My girlfriend left me two months ago and I'm still devastated. It just doesn't make any sense. I thought we had a perfect relationship; we never fought, there was no abuse, I adored her three kids. We were good friends before we started dating and I thought I knew her. Super bowl sunday, she signed with a realtor to sell her house and move into mine. She broke it off the next day very coldly. Rumor has it that it was for another man, but that's just rumor. How could she be so deceitful? Does that abrupt ending make sense? I have to work with her 8 hours a day, too. There's no way to transfer or get a different job without a massive pay cut I can't afford. I'm living in hell. None of my emotions have gotten easier to deal with. HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-30 11:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, I am really sorry to read this. It just does not make any sense to me neither (I mean, her attitude). That is a real blow to you and you are stuck with having to see her every day. This is a tough one. I suppose it would not make sense to try and speak to her?
Any chance she changes job?
Know what? The only thing that comes to my mind is: lucky you to not be involved anymore with someone who could act like this. And also, what does not kill you makes you stronger. I got quite strong lately, so that works. Good luck.
2007-03-30 11:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but there's nothing she can say that will make any kind of sense to you. You can try and talk to her, but be prepared, you may not get the response you want, or like. You say you work with her, do you actually see her?
Most people say take it one day at a time, I say take it an hour at a time. It's going to be hard, and I'm so sorry for that. I hope that you find an answer.
If there really is another man, and you really want to know...then ask her point blank. She does owe you that much. What if it is another man? Are you ready to hear that? Logic says yes...but the heart says ignorance really is bliss.
Good luck. Prayer worked for me. In fact, it was the ONLY thing that got me through something similar to this.
2007-03-30 18:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Tiilynn♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask her why the relationship came to a abrupt stop. That was bold. But if she tries to come back in your life it betta be a good reason. Try to communicate. She did you wrong. And when relationships end like that they were never real any way.
2007-03-30 18:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you turned into a wussy giving the girl everything she wanted and being nice all the time. Basically you weren't being a man by standing up for things you wanted to do and disagreeing with her. You don't know but girls will often test guys to see how manly they are. If you always agree with them and give them everything they want, you fail this test. My guess is you failed this test and she lost attraction for you. She can't explain it but thats what happened!
2007-03-30 18:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, that's all that you can do. or else ur gonna have to deal with it, but give it a shot, even if its a no, at least you tried.
2007-03-30 18:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by ikikcurdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋