How do i get her back as a friend?

Question

ME AND DIS GURL ARE IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER WE BROKE UP A LONG TIME AGO BUT STAYED FRENS BUT SUMTIMES THE WAY SHE ACTS TURNS ME OFF SO I STOPPED TALKING TO HER FOR A LONGTIME WEN MY BEST FREN SAM CONFRONTED HER SHE SAID STUFF LIKE SHE DOESNT CARE BOUT ME SHE DONT WANNA TALK TO ME CUZ I STOPPED TALKING TO HER THEN THE NEXT DAY SHES LIKE IM THE LOVE OF HER LIFE SHE WUD MARRY ME.... BUT THE HARD THING IS WE ARE LESBIANS SO I GUESS SHES SCARED OF THAT GETTING OUT SO OVER AND OVER WEN MY FREN WUD TALK TO HER 1 TIME SHE HATES ME THE NEXT SHE SHE LOVES ME I KNW SHE RELLI LOVES CUZ SHE ACTS LIKE WEN SHE ROUND ME. WE FINNALLY AGREED TO TALK BAK BUT ITS SO HARD.OVER THAT PERIOD OF TIME RUMORS STARTED SPREADING BOUT US BEING GAY AND STUFF. MONTHS LATER WHICH WAS YESTERDAY I ADDED HER MESSENGER IM LIKE HI SHES LIKE I HATE U I SICK HER STOMACH LEAVE HER ALOND SHE STILL VEX CUZ OF THE RUMORS AND CUZ I STOPPED TALKING TO HER AND **** OFF I TOLD HER ITS NOT MY FAULT SHE SAID SHE DONT CARE WHAT I SAY.

so today at skool (we are in high skool) it does not look anything like the same girl angry at me on msn last night i mean the look her eyes the way her face is wen she looks at me SHE LOVES ME i know for sure i dont get what is trying to prove i cant say anything to her she wont talk bak.

Answer 1

give it up! its over for reason.

Answer 2

Don't be to foolish. The fact is that yea she loves you, she feels for you, but its time for you to learn your frist big lessons about love. LOVE isn't enough. Love is the start, so what if she feels for you that doesn't mean she is yours. It takes so much more then that. Now your other lesson is BE careful who you love. As you can see she can love you but doesn't have enough compassion for her self, nor enough passion for you. Learn that love only gets you so far in life there has to be a reason why you love them are it well only get so far. Also learn to love yourself frist... that way stuff like this isn't going to hurt you so much because you always got you... also don't try and make this girl your lover again, if you want the friendship thats fine reach for it, but if your doing a lot of this out of lust your going to make it harder and harder on the both of you....