I need to know. Can you please help????

Question

Okay I hate to sound like a snob but i cant find a man who deserves to be with me. I think i am pretty good catch. I am pretty goodlooking. I am a college graduate with my own house, car and a great career. I play softball on the weekends and love having a cold beer and playing pool with my male coworkers after work sometimes. Now heres my problem every man i meet is either married, gay or wants me to support them. The one guy I thought I had a future with turned out to be living in a shelter. If he had just fallen on hard times I would be okay with it. But he said he planned to stay there and use the system until he felt like working again. Why I dont know. He's perfectly capable of working. What I need to know is where can I find a man with a good job, with a great sense of humor, likes some of the things I like, who eventually wants to get married? Oh yeah he should have all of his teeth too. Thanks.

Answer 1

You need to get use to acutal reading a person. It isn't something you do in the frist meeting ether. It invovles some researching with them being the main source of your research. First off get there story from them. I'm not talking about one funny story they have, I'm talking about there lifes story. Usually if a person can give you most of there story they actual spent sometime to know how it defines them. Another thing thats A+ important for you is purpose. Look at there purpose in life, that well tell you everything you know. Watch out for people that choose god thats just an easy cope-out. And stay away from people that say things like "I don't know" or "I just want to have sex and do drugs and find a women who can tolerate that" If they don't take life seriously enough to know why they cope with it every day, there not going to take you very serious ether. I mean for me my purpose in life is to do everything I can to improve myself and the people around, with the sole goal of improve our quality of life, not money wise, but emotional. But as you can see it isn't simple and it means you would have something to call me on if I stray from my path. And if I stray from that path I can't blame you I can only blame myself. So if you can't find a person who takes it seriously enough to acutal spend there time thinking about, turn the other way... its what I do... I'll give some people credit thou but I'll only let them in as far as I can trust that reason there still alive. Because I don't care what they tell you, it isn't easy.... so there better be a damn good reason why you deal with it our else its most likly there just here because of the pretty lights (distrations, drugs, sex, money, prestige, and all the other stuff that means nothing to family and friends).