My best friend and I go way back, and my sister is my favorite person in the world. They are friends, but it seems like they are becoming closer. I'm starting to think she might like him, and he has actually told me before that he kinda felt bad because he was starting to like her (that was like a year ago). Should I let this happen, or step in and not allow it to? He's a good guy, who would probably treat my sister right, but at the same time it doesn't feel right. This is the guy that I use to joke around with about "banging those girls like a screen door in a hurricane." How can I let this guy get with my sister, when I know that's the type of thing he probably wants to do with my little baby sister?
2007-03-30 06:55:01 · 10 answers · asked by Eric M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, my sister has a boyfriend, and my friend is single, but it still seems like they both like each other.
2007-03-30 07:12:42 · update #1
Should you step in and not allow it? You seem to be a bit full of yourself if you think you can control the lives of two other people. Seems to me that it's really none of your business.
2007-03-30 06:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by Always Right 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your intentions and concepts are key earlier your moves. you'll have emotions or a unexpected theory notwithstanding it really is the way you entertain them that makes it haraam or halaal. (i comprehend this isn't all appropriate notwithstanding it really is a G-rated celebration) if you're in a keep and also you spot some thing pleasing and also you without note have the idea of taking it. the tale is going 2 methods now per theory proccessing: a million. you do not take it yet circuitously you want you had. you imagine about the way it ought to were undemanding and how effective it ought to have looked on you. 2. You dont take it and walk away and not using a 2d theory. Now, evaluate your theory procedure on the guy and tell me, is what you imagine about him haraam or halal? you ought to brush off all concepts previous "effective guy and strong heart". it will be confusing notwithstanding it really is area of the war in the course of All-h (swa) i comprehend you're comprehend-how what i'm getting at.
2016-12-03 00:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya well when u think about it every guy says some nasty things like that with their friends..so it's better if u actually know the guy than for her to go and be with a complete stranger right? at least u can have a talk with him about treating her right.. and if hes really a good guy then he'll respect ur words.. however....u also have to realize that if they do start to date and one day everything goes bad and they break up... ur friendship with him might change 4ever
2007-03-30 07:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by ¤Amanda¤ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens between men stays between men. I don't think because you fool around and joke with your friend that way, he shouldn't be dating your sister.
You just said he is a good guy and you've known him since way back, in addition, he told like a year ago that he is starting to like her and your sister obviously likes him too.
What you can do is just be happy for your friend and sister because they are good and they deserve to be with each other.
2007-03-30 07:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...let it happen but also let your best friend know that if he makes ur sister sad he is dead. then if he really loves her (which means he will never hurt her) he will go ahead and start a relationship...if he only wants to joke with her then he will not take the risk.
2007-03-30 07:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by debyfrim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him, then u might want to bring them apart. but if u dont, let him and your sis be happy. if she likes him, then she will be happy with HIM, no matter what, and if u try to bring them far apart, u dont want ur sister's happiness, so just let them come close to each other if u do not like him.
2007-03-30 07:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happen to me they have been married now 10 years & now I have 2 cool nephews & a sweet little niece & gained a Brother & he knows if he gets stupid Me my Brother & Pop's will wreck his day.
2007-03-30 07:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Grunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only concern here is that your sister is treated decently. you never know, she may be the one to ride him hard and put him away wet.
2007-03-30 07:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are 2 consenting adults there is nothing u can do.
2007-03-30 06:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him you dont mind them dating but not ot go to far
2007-03-30 06:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋