I have trouble wearing thong or g-string underwear when going out on weekend last week. My genital area felt sore after wearing it for a weekend night out in the pub. I was a little embarrassed as well that I felt my bum was so exposed under my jeans in the public. It is weekend again, I would love to try the thong but not sure what to do, can anyone help? I will be 27 soon and just recently broke up with my beau, I would love to dress up in a fashionable way, in the hope to meet a nice guy in the pub. I know, from my age, there is no way I can attract a guy with a fully covered panties on my bum, please help.:(
2007-03-30 06:43:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-30 06:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by georgewallace78 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You would be surprised at how many cute styles there are. I am not partial to a g or a thong unless it will only be on for an hour or so. I am the same as you. Get sore.
I would look into some lacy boy-cuts or bakinis. There are some really cute ones out there without the discomfort of a wedgie.
It would be wise to look beautiful on the outside of them though. You don't want to find yourself in a rebound situation and regret it the next day. Slow down and enjoy going out and flirting and see what happens from there. I would be afraid the the break up is too soon and you want to find the right person and not just sum guy from the pub. You are young yet, but dating is just that. Save showing off the underwear until you are in a more secure relationship.
A guy that truly loves you and respects you will wait and will love you even if you wore full-on briefs.
I know this is blunt but I hope this answer allows you to think about youself and love yourself enough to wait.
One of the biggest dressing disasters is having a thong showing above your pants. It's tacky and other girls and guys will look at you and get the wrong impression of you. I know you want to look good but do it in a tasteful way. God bless.
2007-03-30 13:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by ellymom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are almost 27? Have you put in for retirement? Seriously, you are extremely young.
As far as meeting a nice guy with a fully covered butt...did it occur to you that a nice guy would be interested in YOU and not what sort of underwear you have on? If a guy IS attracted to a half naked butt, you can bet he has only one thing on his mind..!!! If you are looking for the nice guy, don't worry about what kind of underwear you are wearing. If you just want a one night stand, by all means, wear the thongs.
If you choose the thongs, be aware that if they are too tight they CAN make you somewhat sore. Maybe try a size larger. Other than that, you just have to get used to them.
2007-03-30 13:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sally G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a big behind, and I love to where G-strings. When I first started wearing them, I felt uncomfortable. So I bought them one size bigger than my normal size, and it was like there were no longer there. Perfect fit! That way, they don't actually creep up and be seen when wearing under jeans. Also, don't where tight jeans or hip huggers. They will be low riding on your hips and then your tush will be exposed. If you do your pants and underwear right, the only thing that will be actually showing is the top band and nothing else. Go for it!!
2007-03-30 14:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter if you wear underwear or a thong at the pub? how would the guy know...Unless you plan on giving it out as easy as it was walking inside?
27 is late to first try thongs and a g string.
2007-03-30 13:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by FutureMrsBeck 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should go for it! Buy under wear that makes you feel confident, and sexy. If you're not comfortable or unsure about wearing the "thongs", then dont. Sometimes being sexy doesnt always mean wearing "thongs" or "g~strings", what makes you sexy is simply you. I'll suggest getting a bigger size thong and walk around the house with them on, so you can get comfortable.
2007-03-30 13:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by lusciousgurlc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for guys who decide to go out with a girl just because her bum is showing?
You are only 27 years old, you are so young and you will find someone who loves you for who you are not your exposed bum.
I don't think you should wear a thong if that's only the thing you are thinking about..
Anyways, maybe the cloth the thong is made out of is causing you the trouble. try to find a good one and good luck.
2007-03-30 13:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes girls wear thongs that are too small and tight, and they cut like floss, wear a bigger longer thong, i if you know what i mean, if your tall then a size 14 or 16 will fit nicely.
wear a size bigger than your wearing now.
2007-03-30 13:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like either a problem with the fit or with the material. If I were you, I'd try another pair, but one made out of something else. You can also try wearing them for shorter periods of time until you get used to wearing one.
2007-03-30 13:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Memphis Lawdog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a stretchable thong from Victoria Secret.
2007-03-30 13:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they were too small. Find cotton thongs to wear regularly so you get used to them. Find a brand that has a thicker crutch area.
2007-03-30 13:49:00 · answer #11 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋