I am trying to ask this girl out and i think the only thing that is keeping me from asking her out is the fact that i am crippled and have no car. my sister says the no car thing is not a problem, but i dont know. would these 2 things be a problem or am i freaking out for no reason? read my last 2 questions to get the whole story
2007-03-30 06:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not knopw how to go about reading your last two questions, so I will just have to go from here. First of all there is no "Trying" to ask a girl out - Bub, - you either do or you don't. Second, I do not like the word "crippled" or "cripple" used in a serious manner, - as I am a cripple myself - I prefer terms of endearment such as "Phocked up as a football bat", "Pretzel legs", "Crazy Legs", "Gimpy", or whatever. I absolutely hate politically correct "Differently-abled", Mobilty-challenged", or my favorite "Locomotion-impaired"
So how are you out-of-whack? Wheels instead of legs? Dark glasses & cane? Hand-talker? Funny -walker? Drunken Sailor Gait & Goofy Hand & Head Motion? I mean it's your disease or disability - why don't you decide how to minimize or maximize it's role in your life?
Some times chicks dig the "I want to be your nurse, and give you comfort" role,
other times, its
" My God I admire him so much for how he just soldier's on thru the pain - I just don't know how he does it day in and day out - God I love him so just for that alone".
Regardless. You are a human being, a creatrion of God. A Man made special by birth defect , disease, or accident. A man apart - but a man non-the-less, you still have a soul , heart , mind , and body to love with and to accept love. Out there are women who are searching for you, desperate to find just you. They are coming, be ready. they are coming.
2007-03-30 07:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're freaking over nothing. Being a cripple doesn't mean you lose the ability and right to ask someone out. Go ahead. It'll make you feel better. And if you get rejected for the first time, tell her you wont stop untill she changes her mind. That will show your persistent.
Good Luck!
2007-03-30 06:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by heavydeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetheart,
If the girl has a genuine heart then no the car thing won't matter and neither will the fact that your crippled. A good couple overcomes obstacles in a relationship.
2007-03-30 06:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on...i am a girl and i would not mind if a guy without a car will ask me out as long as he loved me. but then of course other things come in play but a car would not bother me at all. you really lie her because you are freaking out so that's a good sign. but try your luck only do it in a nice way...;)
2007-03-30 06:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by debyfrim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a nice girl who is down to earth, and cares about people for who they are.. then those things will not matter one bit. Go ahead, ask her out!
2007-03-30 06:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a garden variety case of shyness. to the right woman, your disability and/or lack of transportation won't matter. faint heart never won fair lady.
just ask...the most she can say is "no" but then you may just be pleasantly surprised. good luck
2007-03-30 06:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and let the chips fall where they may! Good luck!
2007-03-30 06:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're freaking out over nothing. if she likes you then all of that stuff doesn't matter. you can't doubt yourself! if you don't believe in yourself, then how can you expect her to believe in you?
2007-03-30 06:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dreamy™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out
2007-03-30 06:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by ashlandtree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know unless you are willing to try. Don't 'label' yourself and don't let those labels run your life.
2007-03-30 06:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋