Mine hasn't he is off chemotherapy, its just a hypothetical
2007-03-30 06:32:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just wanted to be left alone
Didn't care about anyone
Didn't care about anything
All my hates were blown out of proportion
Bawled almost steady for six months
Work was my salvation
The only thing that would get me through the day
If one more person said they were sorry, I was going to explode!!!!
Then slowly after the six month had passed, I began to heal....looking at other little boys his age, thinking how similar they looked.
Then I started to celebrate his life. The way he walked, the way he talked, the cute little mannerisms. All the questions. His life was so simple.
He was six.
2007-03-30 09:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My prayer is for the best for your child.
The time will not be long before no one will say "I am sick." - Isaiah 33:24; Revelation 21:3-5.
Even should the worst happen though, we are not woithout hope.
Isaiah 26:19; Daniel 12:2; John 5:28, 29; Acts 24:15 and many more promise that the dead will live again.
If you want you can email me at Abdijah@myway.com
2007-03-30 13:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Abdijah 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this is so tough. My friends 11 year old nephew just died of cancer and it was so hard to go through. I was not able to have childen my mom lost a baby and that was hard and she went on to have 3 more childrens after that. There is life after death and mourning is healthy and healing. Somehow you pick yourself up and go on and forward.
I would treausre the memeories I had with my child and keep his memory alive. Peace be with you and you and your child are in my prayers.
2007-03-30 15:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first child died at 4 days old.
What do you do? You mourn and go on with your life.
In your situation I wouldn't worry about the hypotheticals and enjoy the realities that he's not dead.
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2007-03-30 13:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by TLG 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats the hardest thing I can think of....your child possibly dying. Where is the reasoning here to take a child away. I lost a brother at 11..he was 14...my family was never the same and I sympathize with your pain..I wish you both all the luck in the world.....
2007-03-30 13:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This happened to my mother. At 25 her first born died at 2 yrs old from Spinal Menengitis. She did go on to have 4 more children but she never lived her life after that. She never got over it and she let it control her life.
She became a recluse. She rarely goes out of her small place today at 87 years old. She never had a normal life.
She let the hurt and pain destroy her and her marriage and her whole life.
God wants us to move on and to remember them only to give thanks that we got to be there parents. It is all a learning experience for our souls. And for my mother it was supposed to be her main learning experience but she retreated in fear and pain. She never moved on. She always blamed herself.
Because of that she now has to live to a ripe old age with that fear and pain. No joy, no happiness, not much of a life. I take care of her but she is difficult to understand therefore I shy away. I strive to never be like her. My whole life she was my example, a bad one in which you learn from.
God wants us to let go of pain and sorrow and move on. We never own our children. They are given to us to love and raise and let loose for their souls to evolve and grow. It is always tragic to lose a child and especially a small child. But you have to understand that the child picked the time to leave and go back to heaven. There learning here was done.
2007-03-30 13:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow man. Sorry to hear - well, scratch that - not sorry he is off chemo! GLAD!! Just sorry he is ill. Not easy to deal with. My sympathies your way...
I dont have kids. If I did, I suppose I would be horribly depressed, but would, after recovery, attempt to have another child.
I wish both your son and you the best. To you and yours....
2007-03-30 13:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad he is off chemo, you must be terrified. I have a boy who is 4 and one who is 2 and I couldn't imagine anything worse than losing one of them. We have come close to losing our older boy a couple of times and it was more awful than I can even explain. I wish your boy the greatest health and all the best.
2007-03-30 13:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Momofthreeboys 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am not good at coping with such pain, to be honest I'd drown my sorrows with liquor, as I have done in the past.
There is nothing worse than losing your only child.
2007-03-30 13:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to sure; I have four children but I have lost one in a way.
I never stop thinking of her and my world has been changed unequivocally. Although life goes own, it will never be quite the same.
2007-03-30 13:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by Quantrill 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋