why can't i feel sad just for my own ***?

Question

when someone is acting RUDE or BADLY toward someone else I feel so strange that I want to burst in tears even if I don’t even like or know that person and in the end this is what I hear from victim "mind ur own business who asked u to speak for me I wasn't afraid I just don’t care so just use ur mouth for ur own words" am I too nice or just going crazy?

Answer 1

Really in most situations like this you are best off ignoring it. Unless you see someone in trouble or being abused publicly, don't say anything. It makes the victim more embarrassed. But if you see something along the lines of someone verbally abusing a child you can always shake your head and go "tsk, tsk". Hopefully the abuser gets the hint!

Answer 2

Next time reply to the rude unappreciative
victim, that you were speaking out for the
past and future people that have, and will
tolerated that crude behavior.

Answer 3

I'm not trying to be rude, but you may need counseling or have yourself checked by a doctor. It sounds like you are either unbalanced, or you have some emotional issues you need to resolve. You are being overly emotional. You should work on being a stronger individual, and know when to stand up for yourself, and for others, when permitted.

Answer 4

You seem like an empathetic person who feels what other people should be feeling for themselves. However, it seems like you need to withdraw yourself from what other people are going through in this sense. You can feel empathetic for people but not strangers or people you don't know. Try standing up for people who you care about and who will value your courage and bravery.