My girlfriend and I want a baby, last night I had a dream about her being pregnant, and the next thing I know I woke up yelling her name. I was in tears and everything. My girlfriend can't see me right now due to some problems at home. What should I do?
2007-03-30 06:01:28 · 10 answers · asked by Hector B 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I would wait to have a baby together until the problems she is having are resolved. For a healthy pregnancy there should be very little stress on the mother and right now it seems that things are a little bit stressful for her right now. Good luck!
2007-03-30 06:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and have a baby when you're grown up. It sounds obvious that you are young. I assume you don't realize what a responsibility a child is. You are going to have to give up all of your dreams and freedom for this baby. I suggest wiating until you are done with college and have lived a little before you consider having a child.
2007-03-30 13:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try to write her a letter.Just explain to her that you are unsure of a lot of things.Be completely honest with her because without honesty and love you have nothing.Remember that having children will change everything in both of you lives.And they can get very expensive.Good luck and I hope everything works out for the two of you.
2007-03-30 13:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant see each other then well maybe your not old enough to even be thinking about having a child. If you were adults noone would be keeping you apart.
2007-03-30 13:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by LP's Mommy, RN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her deal with her problems at home, support her and when things get better then you guys can figure things out.
2007-03-30 13:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Beanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your question is here??? Are you saying that you aren't sure if you want to try to get her pregnant or you don't know what to do because you aren't permitted to see her? Need more info.
2007-03-30 13:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by meandthekids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her on the phone if you can't see her and talk about what you want to do and everything should be fine
2007-03-30 13:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by oneluv813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have a baby!!! get married first!! you dont even live together!!!
2007-03-30 13:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age
2007-03-30 13:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by lillilou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her....
2007-03-30 13:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by tlfdfirefighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋