he and I both work early moring like 8-5.
I tell him, I sleep 10 and why doesnt he call earlier?
Last night he asked If I wanted to come over and hang out and I said sure, so he said ok call in a few. He calls at 9:40! WTH?!>!
I didnt even answer, because I sat and waited on him and he still calls late after I tell him to call earlier?
What is up with dude...
I know he does not have a girlfriend and just keeps telling me he needs company, also, I am pretty, and he would jsut like to get to know me and can not through text messages? I call him and one day he was like why did you call?
He did not answer?
2007-03-30 05:31:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hah being pretty, guess the mixed messages i get from him. Your nice, pretty, i would love to hang out with you......those kinds of things
2007-03-30 06:03:53 · update #1
Sounds to me like the guy gets lonely at night and is just looking for something, if you know what I mean. Don't give in. Be smart. Your right to question the behavior, go with your gut on this one.
2007-03-30 05:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by biggdaddy1669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has communication issues. Text messaging is really getting out of hand. People are using it to seriously have major conversations. It's not used for that, pick up a freakin' phone if you wanna talk. Don't answer the phone when he calls and don't text back if I were you. That type of crap really rubs me wrong.
2007-03-30 05:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like he's got other "engagements" earlier on, or he just wants to meet up with you around what i like to call the f*ck faze. Those are those hrs of night when the only real thing you can do is get real freaky naughty. Lay down the law, then stop answering his calls. If he doesnt get it, he doesnt get "it".
2007-03-30 05:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by atlazdrama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it all before. Don't waste your time. He may not have another girlfriend but he has another girl he is seeing. He calls/texts after he's done with her. He doesn't answer your calls because he is "busy" with her, its either that or he's looking for a booty call. Stop playing yourself. This isn't even a real relationship, look how things are going. Give it up.
You're shallow, what does you being pretty have to do with this question? Weirdo
2007-03-30 05:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he's only interested in you on his own terms -- when he wants to talk to you, he texts you. Otherwise, he's not interested? That's crap. Let him know that if he wants to do things with you, it has to be earlier. And if he's not up for that, just walk away and find someone who can respect your schedule a bit better.
2007-03-30 05:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to work at 8:00 isn't early, it's normal.
He isn't into you the way you want him to be. He has other things to do after work, and gets to you when he as time. Not really that hard to figure out.
2007-03-30 05:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird. Stop responding to him past 9PM. Respond to his late night texts the following afternoon. If he can't get the hint, forget him. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-03-30 05:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction without the detail was : maybe he wants to be the last thought in your hear before you go to sleep. But with the details, that's kinda odd, and annoying and weird! You should confront him.
2007-03-30 05:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pussy and can't handle talking over a phone and would prefer to IM or text you because it's "easier". Whats it like talking to him face to face, it must be horrible.
2007-03-30 05:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some plans dont give free mins till later so talking early can get expensive
2007-03-30 05:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Camshaft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋