At the moment im a student and have my studies and my parents just divorced and theres alot of trouble in my life and I want someone that will be mine and stick beside me but I dont know if its right to involve someone in my rubbish life..Ive been feeling really lonely these past few years and I dont know what to do
2007-03-30 02:53:38 · 9 answers · asked by Tookie Williams 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds pretty hectic for you right now.....my suggestion would be to continue to see friends....do things...try and get some "fun" back into your life. Parents divorcing is always very stressful and depressing...but you have to think....your parents obviously can't live together, and it has nothing to do with you or your sibblings if you have any.....but it can affect all of you. You have to start making yourself feel better by doing things you want to do with your friends....by the summer time, things will have cooled down a bit and your new surroundings willl have eased up some...perhaps then you can meet someone and hopefully start a relationship. I know you want to feel loved and to share the love you have with someone...but until you're feeling better about yourself and your new life.,surroundings....theres not much of a chance at the moment. You Have To Start FEELING Better about yourself before you can start dating and devote feelings for someone else. GoodLuck* Keep on Smilin* Just look at it as a start of a fresh new life for you....You can do this :)
2007-03-30 03:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl that is going to love you for you isnt going to worry about how bad your life is, shes going to help you get through it. But the negative side to this thinking is that she could just make it worse. Meet someone and start a relationship through a friendship. Its the best way to make sure you wont be played. Put your studies first and tune out the parents. They have their own problems that you shouldnt get involved in. The divorce process is long and full of bad situations but no girl is going to judge you on that. If you want to talk email me, ive been through divorcing parents and im good company! Good luck.
2007-03-30 03:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls will be more than HAPPY to help their men go through a rough time, and some girls will only make it worse. You have to find the right one and seek Gods direction on Who you should date. But maybe you do need some time to get your head straight.
Its not your fault that your parents divorced, And you shouldnt hate either one of them. You need to allow healing into your heart.
2007-03-30 02:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...there ARE girls out there who, when they truly love you, will be selfless(true love is) and stick by you even if it means hardship for them too but not just any girl will. i knwo what you mean that you are maybe scared that by sharing all your woes to her it will be overbearing and turn her away but just think, the sooner you try, the sooner you will know if she is one that will stick by you. I'm so sorry that you are going through such a hard time. Hope you find someone soon cuz i know it sucks to be lonely*hugz*
2007-03-30 03:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you horny then just ask a girl out. life is just life, if it's not one thing it's another. you going to learn to balance your life trouble anyway so hell ya. but school is more important thought so don't screw around with your study. but ya go and find a girl.
2007-03-30 02:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats what love is. compramise.(sp?) shes there for you, but you have to be there for her. its not selfish to want someone at your side, perfectly normal. make sure you dont want someone just so they can help you though, andmake sure they can be there for you before you expect them to be. good luck.
2007-03-30 02:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Rob D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just maybe this new girl can help you through your rough times.
2007-03-30 02:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by mncltrr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well go have a drink son! you can meet a woman at a bar, you can meet a woman anywhere, you just have to be confident in yourself :)
2007-03-30 02:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
awww. just start looking. and if she is the right one, you will know.
2007-03-30 02:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋