im gonna tell this girl that i really like her...we've been going out for a month now and im worried about rejection...if i tell her i like her and she doesnt like me the same way...im going to tell her i like her but that thought just keeps ringing in the back of my head...should i worry or am i being silly?
2007-03-30 02:44:40 · 12 answers · asked by RL54 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should know better, if you guys already dating, means u guys like each other. If you want to tell her that you like her, go for it. It won't hurt you, i am sure she will feel wow that you really like her. If she doesnt, dump her because who knows she uses you or not. Just go for it, dating always sharing information.
2007-03-30 02:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, worrying is only a natural reaction from any person whos gonna pop the answer (i mean confess his/her love)!
I think its only natural as you are just afraid your feelings won't be reprociated and you are also afraid that it may be a one-sided love and that if you blew it, you will no longer get to stay friends with her anymore, right?
But, I can safely say that particular girl who have been going out with you for one month, must be into you already and shes probably waiting for you to make the first move!
Because as a girl, if I'm not the least interested in a guy, I would just probably oblige him for one date and that's it, no more! So I'm pretty sure since she already went out with you for one month and counting, you must have some charisma that attracts you to her, so you can lie easy and calm down now!
I would advise you to dig out your courage and tell her you like her probably with some flowers and romantic stuff, any girl would be extremely touched! :)
Besides, if you don't tell her your feelings now, you might not have a second chance to do so any more and you may regret it now and forever! Just get that tangling feeling and worry over and done with, so even if she rejects you (though i doubt so), at least you have finally gotten the answer you've been longing to hear rather than letting that trouble you for the rest of your life (so that in the future, you will not look back and start thinking "what if i had said "i love her" to her, would anything happen between us back then?") and you can finally move on! :)
2007-03-30 10:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by sopthypink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her where does she think you guys are going because you really like her, and just wanted to make sure she feels the same. Say that you're not pressuring her into anything, that you just want to know her feelings. You may be surprised - she may start to be into you even more when she knows you actually LIKE to talk to her, and willing to listen. My boyfriend of 5 YEARS told me he loved me first, after about 4-5 months. I didn't say it back then, I told him that I wanted to sort out MY feelings first, before I made that commitment to him. I even BROKE UP with him a few weeks after. But we remained friends, and I couldn't bear to not have him as my boo-boo! So now, we have a 7 month old son, and should be getting married in 2008!
Moral: Don't be afraid of your feelings. If she really knows what she's got, she won't let it go.
2007-03-30 09:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if she dont like u itleast some what the same way theres a prob!! bc uv been datn right for a month anyways not really that long but long enough to know how u feel with them maby wait another month or so hunn iv been datn my bf for 6 months now and things change after the nice month or so!! not saying things r gonna go bad everyone has there fights but still wait another month or so to tell her im shor everything will be ok im madly inlove with my bf soo goodluck! :)
2007-03-30 09:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by becca m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
It sounds like you are pretty young. I'm 39 been married 3 times. I say tell her how you feel. Be honest with her and yourself. That is the only way. Communication is the key to any relationship, and if it hurts just remember that there are other women out there that would really like to go out with a guy like you.
2007-03-30 09:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by tim m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness. You've been going out for a month already. Don't be scared. Just tell her. And yes, you're being silly.
2007-03-30 09:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been going out for a month and she doesn't know you like her by now, something is wrong with her. After a month you should be able to open up to each other about anything. Good luck!
2007-03-30 09:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by ca_oss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have been dating for a month already or hanging out for a month?
Dont be scared, But dont get hurt if she rejects you. Be ready for anything! But if you want her, then go after her.
2007-03-30 09:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. If you really like her tell her, just wait for the right moment when you both are having a good time.
2007-03-30 09:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yall have been going out for a month, and she didnt like u, she would have left u by now, ur just being silly, itll be ok and if she rejects u, maybe yall would be better as friends anyways oh thanks for the points
2007-03-30 09:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋