my best friend has been seeing this guy for about2 years, he is a lot older than her, she was an affair when they first met but now they are havin a proper realtionship but he always wants to have sex with her and other girls, her friends or just people they meet. its starting to really upset her as he only seems to be bothered about her when sex with other girls is involved. i think she feels like she isnt enough for him. I keep telling her that a proper boyfriend shouldnt be doing this but she says she is too in love with him, she would never leave him. i think she might end up really hurt. Is it normal for a guy to act like this or is he using her?
2007-03-30 02:36:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes using her and as long as she lets him it will continue
2007-03-30 02:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has 5 kids from how many different mums? All 5; Jeez; If his girlfriend doesnt like the idea of a threesome then he should leave it at that, not keep going on about it because of course its gonna take its toll on your best friend. What happened to just two people in love having sex? Crazy world;
2007-03-30 02:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Black Magic; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Do you really think this is "normal"??
It is clear as crystal that this weirdo is a man without any respect for your friend, without any sense of responsibility, without any consideration for other people's feelings but with a out of proportion ego who only thinks selfishly about his own needs.
If your friend is continuing this emotionally abusive relationship, she is like someone who drives a car in full speed towards the lights coming towards he in a tunnel. A very bad crash is inevitable.
But the worrying thing is that despite she is being abused, she is still in love with that moron, which is not normal, she might need some professional counselling, too.
2007-03-30 02:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by Eugene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing that scares me about this is that these sort of people ARE reproducing! A fine example why we ought to be lobbying Congress to pass enforced sterilization bills.
Your lady friend is doomed, it seems. She is dumb as snow and will get what she deserves for being desperate for anything in pants- a miserable Jerry Springer types life.
No woman ought to be so desperate for male company as to go after someone still in the ape stage of evolution. *sad*
2007-03-30 02:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she want to be with a guy who wants threesomes and to sleep with other women. That isn't a relationship! She is too in love with him? Is she nuts! This guy is not interested in her at all, he just is interested in having sex with a lot of women she should dump that creep.
No this is not normal for a guy to act like this! This guy is a player, a creep, a loser, trash, she should get rid of him.
2007-03-30 02:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using her. I think most men would want a threesome, but if you are in a relationship with someone who doesn't feel the same then you shouldn't expect it. It is time for him to move on and find "happiness" elsewhere and she has to be the one who makes it happen. Get rid of the guy!!!
2007-03-30 02:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by ca_oss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a complete idiot, a total waste of space. He's obviously got a problem if he's so addicted to sex. He's also very stupid, does he nothing about condoms??!!!
Get your friend away from this idiot before she ends up with a baby too. Yeah she's going to be heart broken but stand by her and give her your support. She deserves so much more.
2007-03-30 02:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by Vixx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He`s not a control freak as well as a brain dead pervert is he ? Sure she`s not scared of him ? Coz it seems very strange for a young girl to be sticking with a jerk like this when there`s lots of young lads out there she could be having fun with. I would watch this situation very closely and make sure he isn`t bullying/threatening her.Somebody needs to look out for her.
2007-03-30 03:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it says it all really he has 5 kids all to different mums.this guys life is based purely on sex he dosent know the meaning of the word love.if he really loved her he wouldnt be interested in anyone else.and if she has any sence she would get out for hewr own sanity,and before she picks up a disease .this man is as*
2007-03-30 02:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by fairy_gdmthr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's usual for guys to fantasize about 3somes but they normally wouldn't suggest it to their significant other for fear of a huge argument!
My impression is this guy is not viable long term commitment / marriage material and that it will end in tears (your friends tears, that is).
2007-03-30 02:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sylvester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using her and she will get hurt. You have said your piece about normal boyfriends not doing this and you are absolutely right. Sometimes you have to let people make their own mistakes. x
2007-03-30 03:15:42 · answer #11 · answered by farleyjackmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋