Last year, I went on a trip and me and this girl started fingering me. Now this year the the same girl and I strated kissing and rubbing on each other, etc. We finally hooked up and everyday since then we been kissing etc. Could I be gay?
2007-03-30 02:23:01 · 40 answers · asked by 2Cute09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could just be exploring. Every girl thinks it, you just had to courage to do it!! Hey, good for you! And I don't think your gay.
Good Luck Darlin
2007-03-30 02:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Elley s2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are. But I do know that sexual lines and shades are not as black and white as people paint them to be. Because you experiment with this person, it does not necessarily make you gay.
Do you find that you are not attracted to ANY males in a physical manner or can't imagine that you would be? Or never have been? If you say yes to that question then you may be gay. Otherwise don't worry about labels.
2007-03-30 02:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You indeed are attracted to women, but that does not rule out that you could be atracted to men too. Have you had any such experience with a guy yet? If you have, was it just as satisfying? Despite Christian right wing opinion, and cultural pressure, ALL of us have a natural scale of BOTH homosexual and heterosexual tendencies, but we carry that out throughout our lives to the extent that we are concious of it and/or see fit for our lifestyles. Kinsey's research has substantiated these claims. Either way, whatever you are attracted to or which ever sex you prefer, or WHO you love no matter what gender is a splendid and beautiful thing and do not let the pressures or opinions of others bother who you are and who you want to be with. Stand strong for your mate who ever they may be, and don't feel guilty about experimenting with who you are/my be/becoming!! :)
2007-03-30 02:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a complicated question and only you can answer.
You need to look at your own feelings and decide, do you want to live, love and be intimate only with a woman for the rest of your life? If the answer is a resounding yes then you have your answer if not perhaps it's just a curiosity that you have or maybe you are bisexual.
2007-03-30 02:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on your age, could just be an experimenting fase, i kissed a girl when i was 14 and we had a 'feel' but i know for sure now it was just experimenting cuz i have absoluty no interest in women in that way. You've gotta look around and ask yourself, do i ever really like any men or have i ever really really liked or wanted a man, then ask yourself do you or have you ever felt like that about women, particulary the one you mention, cuz like i said you could just be experimnting and going along with her cuz it feels exiting. I guess you'll have to wait and see if you get strong feelings for her or any other women if you wanna know for sure.
2007-03-30 02:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by a_random23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the correct term is lesbian - men are gay. If you like men and women then you could be bi-sexual. However, if you've never been with a man and don't really want to be with one - then you are probably lesbian. Also, if you don't like all women, but just have a thing for this one woman - it could be that you aren't any of those titles, you just like her. That happened to me once. Though I've been with women, I don't really consider myself bi or lesbian, I just like "certain" women. There has to be something about "her" that attracts me - it's not just "I'm in to chics". So maybe that's how you are too?
2007-03-30 02:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, how else would you define your actions? Do you also like men sexually??? Then, you are bi-sexual. Bi, gay.. either way it's the way of life you will be most comfortable with, and there's nothing to be ashamed of. If you are afraid to "come out of the closet", then just keep things quiet for now, until you feel ready to expose your sexuality to friends/family. It's your life, you should live it how ever you are happy. Good luck.
2007-03-30 02:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by LARGE MARGE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, the fact that your asking ; should already tell you. I mean kissing or fingering with the same sex is a gay act. Now, are you gay or just horny or going through a stage. Only time will tell. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2007-03-30 02:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by recy2cup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see, she was fingering you and you enjoyed it? And now you kiss, rub against each other and hook up??? Yeah sounds to me like you very-well could be.
2007-03-30 02:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do that too, well i still do occasionally but i am bi....i like both sexes and yes i would consider that lesbian,but its up to you on what makes you happy and what you wanna do, i still think you are though, o yea n its not a bad thing either its just want you want in life
2007-03-30 02:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, depending on your history. Also, your age. People do a lot of things when young that they might not be inclined to do later, as part of the process of finding out who they are.
2007-03-30 02:25:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋