2007-03-30 02:22:08 · 11 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only to a certain point...within reason...
2007-03-30 02:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, well, sometimes. You see, I used to be really into the bar scene and I'd frequent clubs when I was 19/20 years old and 30/35 year old men would constantly hit on me and I could clearly tell by the way they talked and treated me that they were looking for some trophy innocent thing that would either marry them and become their slave/mother of their children or looking to 'take advantage' of some niave little girl. I would not trust a man 10 to 15 years older when you're in your early twenties. I didn't go for it. In fact, I was called a ***** a lot, but I'm a feminist and I respect myself as a woman.
Of course, there may be a few older men out there who are not looking for baby makers and home makers/wreckers, but I never met them. I'd say, trust your instinct and if you don't feel like you are intelligent enough, stay within a 5 year range and be very reserved when it comes to 'falling in love'. Besides, I believe that when you find 'true love' no matter how hard you fight it, it'll happen when you both know or at least that was how it 'went down' with my soon to be husband and I. Good luck!
2007-03-30 09:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the ages are...be more specific. Usually if your both over 21 it doesn't seem as strange..unless the girl is like 20 years older than the guy... now that's a little questionable.
2007-03-30 09:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by lolliepop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me as long as the lady is over 20 then yes age is just a number
2007-03-30 09:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i THINK that age is not just a number, even if the person that you are dating is older and more mature, you have to realize that either if they are older than you, they are on a different level or if you are older than them then you are on a different level. If you both date each other you both will expect different things from your relationship. I hope this helps!
2007-03-30 09:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by sMarTie_gUrl001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your both happy then age has nothing to do with it i've always dated older men from the time i was 13 my b/f was 23. my son's dad was 10 years older than i my b/f now is 16 years older than me
2007-03-30 09:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by mirandadeve2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated an 8 years junior and I am not happy with age gap it does bothered me.
2007-03-30 09:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by chinky69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but not so much when a girls like 16 and the guys 75
2007-03-30 09:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tookie Williams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 36,i truly love him!!
2007-03-30 09:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a problem if the girl's underage...
2007-03-30 09:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is.....jst a number that shouldnt matter if its "true love"
2007-03-30 09:27:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋