First of all, I know theres probably worser off people out there than me but just hear me out and let me know what you think. All my life theres been nasty people around trying to make things tough for me and my dad. My mom went to blackpool and got engaged to another bloke while still married to my dad. She then burns all our stuff and runs of with her fancy man to get married. She disappears for 10 years, comes back to say hello for 10 minutes and now shes living miles away and has currently married another 3 blokes since she walked out on us. But theres always been my brothers and their girlfriends to make things tough too. My brother would rob off me to feed his alchoholic cigarette munching girlfriends needs and just hurl abuse at me. They still do but I just ignore it all. And my half brother came in drunk and set about my dad. Broke the bones in his hand, kicked all his head and kicked some teeth out. Now theyve all joined together into one big hate club constantly plotting.
2007-03-29 23:19:17 · 26 answers · asked by gbasource 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
They sound really screwed up. Get away from all of them as soon as you can.
Then get some counselling for yourself so that you can eventually lead an emotionally healthy life.
2007-03-29 23:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sly Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've had a tough upbringing. Makes me appreciate how lucky I am. All I can say is that there are good people out there it just might be that because you've been through a lot that you have trouble trusting people and look for the bad in them. It's not your fault though because that's what you've been used to. Even though I've have parents that have always cared for me I still had a lot of problems during my teenagehood due to bullying at school and have suffered with depression and still do so I guess noone's got it all! I moved around a lot when I was a kid as well cos of my dads job and I found that really hard and probably don't have that many close relationships a s a result. Not everyone is evil but there are some people that are just bad and like to hurt people but hopefully they're the minority!
2007-03-30 06:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by fiona25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just like to say that you're a really tough person. Not many people can take things like that, and you seem very tolerant.
Kudos to you for being able to withstand such stuff without turning to suicide and getting high to escape from everything the world has thrown at you.
Maybe you would'nt want to bring this to the police's attention or something and tell on your brother for stealing and causing grievous hurt, but you should find someone to confide to before you go mad from all these. I'm not mocking you, this is just my advice. You could talk to someone you can trust, and have him or her as a confidante, you'll feel better. Don't take all of this into yourself, and always remember, you deserve more than this.
I'm not saying you should shoot your brother in order to stop everything, but something definitely has to be done before he goes from bad to worse. I know it's not as easy as it sounds, but get help, things might change for the better if you approach higher authority.
This is your life. And he's ruining it.
Luck, and God Bless.
2007-03-30 07:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bunnyz C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please accept my sincere sympathy for you and your poor Dad. Unfortunately some people are just selfish and self centred and think the world and the everyone in it revolves around them, and this sounds like your family. My best advice would be for you and your Dad to move as far away from these people as possible and not leave a forwarding address, they may be family but they don't deserve to be!
You know the old saying,'You can choose your friends but you can't choose your family' and by the sound of it that has never been more true in your case.
Good Luck with this I hope it all works out in the end.
2007-03-30 06:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can then you and your dad need to avoid all contact with them. They sound like very selfish people who are out for themselves. Unfortunately there are alot of people like that who only care about themselves and use and hurt other people to get what they want in life. You and your Dad are better than them! The next time your brother robs or abuses you or your Dad call the police. That is assault and robbery to is against the law and he should be prosecuted for it. Let them have their hate and bitter club and you need to start fighting back by turning them into the police. You could also get a restraining order against them. But you dont have to take it, just dont stoop to their level. And as far as your Mom goes, it is her loss in not having a relationship with you. Be happy you have your Dad, be there for him.
2007-03-30 06:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn that's one case of a bad broken family...
I'd advice you to leave them all...
Go away with your dad and forget that you got them as family or you could erase them from the face of the world... do the latter in the out most necessity like self-defense...
the reason for people to be evil is they cant get any of the Maslow Hierarchy of need... They've feel neglected and lost and somebody else seem to get all what they want and so jealousy becomes hate then they become evil...
Hope you can fix this without shedding blood....
2007-03-30 06:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your explanation makes me wonder why your dad has not done something about all of this. This is a disfunctional situation to say the least. If you are grown, take your dad and get the heck out of there. If you are a child, talk to your dad about getting some help for your siblings. As for your mother--she sounds like a lost cause. Be glad she isn't there to torture you and your dad.
2007-03-30 06:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why these people, especially your mum would do these things to you. the very people who are supposed to nurture and protect you are those who are hurting you the most. all i can say is, at least you have your dad. try not to let this screw up your life any more. stay away from these negative forces in your life and show them all by making a success of yourself. when you have kids. be the best father you can be and you and your dad stick together. good luck to you both
2007-03-30 10:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by fat momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all choose to incarnate with certain other souls to learn the lessons we need to evolve toward enlightenment. You cant change what others do, but you can and are responsible for your responce and actions. It's a waste of time concerning ourselves with what other do when we cant do anything about it. So my suggestion is to work on you, being the best you that you can be and learn the lessons from these
people you came here to learn...
We don't always learn from other - but often inspite of them.
Have faith in yourself to grow beyond this plite.
2007-03-30 09:30:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it seems you come from a particularly unpleasant family. Not everybody's like that. Clearly you aren't like that yourself. I'm sure you are right, there probably are people much worse of than you, but that doesn't make your situation any better.
It may be small comfort but none of this is your fault, you are just unlucky. Don't let their deplorable behaviour rub off on you, you are a better person than them.
2007-03-30 09:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋