I met a guy a few days ago on the internet and we met up yesterday, he came round my house. He only lives round the corner so i thought that it would be a good chance to make a friend in my area as i've not lived here long but he started to get feelings for me and i had a bit of a thing for him too. When he came over he was really full on, i had to tell him to stop and the next day he said he wanted me to be full on, he said he gets a thrill of doing things in public and its what makes a date fun, so i told him i think we're different in that prospective. He told me that if i won't do anything, we may as well not see each other again and i said i just didn't want to rush into things so he blocked me on msn.
I txt him askin what i had done and he said "its me, i'm sick, i'm a freak, sex orientated" so i told him that he fooled me into believin he was decent, he didn't txt back but i text him again sayin i hope he feels really bad, do i still talk to him? It really hurt that i got used.
2007-03-29 23:12:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't talk to him, lik you said you got used. He's probably got a whole bunch of girls on msn and already prowling for his next victim. He sounds desperate to me.
2007-03-29 23:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Harmz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have talked to him enough. He is blocking you so I think that tells you how he feels about the two of you. Sure he will come around when you agree to his sexual fantasies but is he going to stay around? It seems he likes you for other reasons then a relationship. You've only known him for a few days??? Just leave him alone and I hope he doesn't know where you live because if this guy is that pushy after only one night then imagine how sick he might really be. Lock your doors and stop texting him for pete sakes!!!! Good luck to you.
2007-03-30 06:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by CeeCee19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie the writings on the wall when you identify early on that someone's not what they seem to be then you need to cut them off. If this guy admits to being a sexual pervert then you need to decide whether you want to continue dealing with someone like that or not. He sounds like he's got some emotional and psychological issues. It's never wise to meet people on the internet because the level of trust and honesty is never guaranteed. If you realized early on that he was a user then you know that you shouldnt deal with someone like that and knowing he lives right around the corner from you just sounds plain creepy.
2007-03-30 06:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't get used, but you were lucky.
Why would you invite a person you met
on line into your home ?
That's dangerous.
If necessary pick a better place around people.
You're not into what he is, so it's over.
He blocked you, so he doesn't want to
communicate with you any longer.
Let It, and him go.
2007-03-30 06:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, don't talk to him again. If you see him in public, greet him just to show you have no hard feelings bout what happened but please don't chat to him anymore. He is a liar and only after one thing.
2007-03-30 06:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hell no u shouldn't there are a lot of guys that would treat u a hell of a lot better than that. im sure u will find a guy that would treat u a lot better and probably better looking too.
2007-03-30 06:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read only the lst line in your question.
dumb.
internet relationships.plus, inviting him to your home? dumb.
what's up with you?
get a grip......move...........pack up and get away from him (it)
you will be happy and (safer), when you do.
2007-03-30 06:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by suzy3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste your time.He is a moron who is not ready for a stable relationship.
2007-03-30 06:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you are advised you are going meet/date him soon and submit to him and for many times
2007-03-30 06:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont bother. He has ADMITTED all he wants sex.
2007-03-30 06:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋