he broke up with me about 7 weeks ago....and i still have feelings for him..he obviously has moved on becuase hes going on dates with a girl who is prettier and smarter...uhh..so anyway...idk what to do...i love him ..he hates me..hes been a jerk to me after we broke up...im just sick of feeling bad...but i cant seem to get over him..
we dated for almost 6 months.....
2007-03-29 18:56:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on with your life. Stop thinking about him. Stop obsessing over him. Date other guys. Go partying with your girlfriends. Meet new people. Do new things. Stop moping over him.
2007-03-29 19:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say yours is not the first nor the last heart that's broken. It seems obvious that he has moved on in his relationship and you have not. The hard part is the denial period. It is alright to mourn over the loss of the relationship, but you need to be kind to yourself and keep this period as short as possible. Do something to give you a different routine that allows you to meet new people. You need not rush into a relationship on the re-bound but just reinforce the self-belief in yourself that you can also have a happy life without him. Good time to call up your best friend and cry over it for 1 last time and start fresh tomorrow with no more tears. There are lots of nice people out there waiting to meet you too.
Good luck girl. :)
2007-03-29 19:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by hehe haha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget abt him since he has been a jerk to you after he broke up with you. You too can find some other guys who are smarter, someone who treats you better and someone who is more good-looking.
Be glad that the relationship is over now. It normal to have feelings for him now. Feelings will fade with time.
2007-03-29 19:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A JERK!!! Say that to yourself many times over...
He treated you like crap and you can do better. The best revenge is a good life so get to the gym and go to the spa
get your hair done and go have some fun. His new girlfriend is not better you just think that but you have to have confidence in yourself. Take care of yourself and move on!
2007-03-29 19:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 7 weeks is a litle bit 4 u 2 try to get over him but u will see that within the days u will 4get about him try to go out with another guy and 4get about him hes just a guy there r a million guys out in the world he's not the only one trust me
2007-03-29 19:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i went through this exact same thing except my ex is back with the girl he was seeing before me dont worry you will find someone new trust me i know it is hard right now you just need to keep your eyes open to other poeple around you and just try to move on and show him tht you still want to be his friend just give it time and i know you will find a guy out there for you who will have everythign he had and more and will give all he had and more....dont give up hope....things will get better....
2007-03-29 19:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its tough when the love is one sided.let me tell you that its very rare cases where boyz are serious about the gals .today it has become the trend that boyz keep minimum 5 gfrnds not less than that.very rare gals get serious about their love.in your case i suggest you to go & tell your guy about everything thats in your heart about him then you decide what to do with him but don't sit & get sick like that get up have the guts to speak up that you love him a lot & cannnot stay without him ,if you tell him its good may be he finds you the different one that you had guts to tell him in front of every1.so go & try this 1 wish you luck.
2007-03-29 19:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by rich s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i now exactly what your going through just take a breather from the dating scene and focus on something else join a gym or club of some type that intrest you or try to futher your education in a feild that you like or take some night classes of some sort that you might like to try to occupy your mind with other things and time and god will do the rest its his loss
2007-03-29 19:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by alice k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for you to still be upset over your break up. One day you will wake up and realize that you are okay with yourself and you don't need him to feel complete. In the mean time, keep yourself occupied - hang out with friends, catch up on reading, spend time on Yahoo!Answers, join clubs, volunteer, take up a new hobby, etc. You'll spend so much time focusing on and bettering yourself that you will soon forget about him.
Keep your chin up :D
2007-03-29 18:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Delvala 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go out and have fun, dont sit at home and dwell on what could have been....the more you think about him the harder its going to be to get over him.....he sounds like a jerk and if you are calling him a jerk he probably is one....go out with your girlfriends and have a good old giggle and b*tch about him...will make you feel better
2007-03-29 19:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by deni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋