I'm 38 and have never felt true love. Now I have dated lot's of men but nothing that worked or lasted. I'm an attractive woman, but always seem to find what I am not looking for. I have my men standards which are reasonable like: have a job, family oriented, intelligent, gentle but not a punk...things like that. I sometime feel like I'm meant to be alone. I guess I'm just ready to settle down. I have two girls 15 & 9 and I pray that one day they will see me in a healthy,fullfilling relationship. Summer is approaching so hopefully I can meet someone special. I do believe in the saying "Don't look for love let it find you"...but damn. I don't dwell on it and I'm enjoying my life but sometimes I wish I had strong warm arms to hold me. I guess I had to get this off my chest. Is there anyone else out there who is around my age or older that is scared they will never find that true "I can't breathe without you love"? Or is it just me? ( it feels like I'm the only one waiting)
2007-03-29 18:46:17 · 6 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Mickie, you're not alone. Sounds like you're on the right track. If you're having fun, enjoying your life and finding rewards in what you are doing, that's great. And it sounds like you're taking good care of your girls. That's most important. When my wife and I got married, she was 5o and I was 60. It was a "subsequent" marriage for both of us. We've been together over 10 years now and it gets better and better every year. You sound like you have a spiritual side. If so, there are many organizations around that have a spiritual (as opposed to religious) emphasis. You might explore some of them.
2007-03-29 18:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up. adult males normally wait till at last after college to locate a ball to chain themselves to. No that replaced into no longer meant as a fat shaggy dog tale yet as a fashion women do income extremely some weight after marriage in the U. S.. for this reason i'm uncertain if i in my view desire to ever marry.. additionally the 14 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous has no clue what he's speaking approximately, women's top age is their mid 30s.
2016-10-01 22:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are picking the wrong men to date. Try to date a man that you would never even consider you will be surprized on the outcome. Join clubs or find a hobbie and you will find someone. Take good care of yourself men are attracted to women who really take time for themselves.
Take your time looks like you already had kids so there is no hurry. RELAX ..... it will happen
2007-03-29 18:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHHH! the simple plesures of unloading all of your problems onto a complete stranger! don't you just love it?! I wish I could help you but alas, I am only a boy of 15 and do not know much on this subject. I can say, however that I also feel as if I will be alone forever... WELL NICE TALKIN TO YA!
2007-03-29 18:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by flunkedlunch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm with you, i'm 26 and divorced for nearly a year. but i'm with you.
2007-03-29 18:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Brian D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel like that everyday
2007-03-29 18:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋