Recently broke up with my boyfriend, I was so fed up with his disrespectful comments! Then his mood swings, I never did nothing right! If we went to the baseball field to see the boys play a game...he swears I am just there checking everyone out...MEN!!! This man was 365lbs....and yes i did love him. I am NOT that heavy and he would put me down so much!! Why???? Did it make him feel better? About himself!!! Then he would truely get so upset and cry when I just packed up and left!! He talks about counseling.....Why would that work? I just keep running back and forth..... confused, miss him when i get lonely and you know how it goes!! He says he wants to get married someday!! And I wish i could but in my heart this man is just going to be good for A WEEK and back to the same ol stuff!!! He tells me I need medication and that I need to go to the doctor and I cant believe he thinks its me with the problem!! I am the one trying to be superwomen! i think i just answered my own question!
2007-03-29 18:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him. you don't need anyone who treats you that way. And no one that treats people that way deserves to be with anyone. you can do better.
2007-03-29 18:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Brian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like you did. He is projecting his problems onto you, blaming you for those issues he has with himself. Until he learns to live with himself you don't want to get stuck with him. As for you, do some work with yourself. Learn to love and honor and respect yourself. If you can truly learn to love and accept yourself you will feel comfortable with yourself and will not be willing to spend time with anyone who does not honor you.
2007-03-30 01:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha..you just did answer your own question.
You go back to him because u feel lonely NOT because you love him. How can someone love such a jerk? Leave him! someone will treat u better.
2007-03-30 01:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go away for the weekend with your closest girls!!!
2007-03-30 01:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by virgo29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋