Do you call and/or email the girl you like a lot or play it cool at first???
I am trying to figure out whether this guy I started seeing in the past couple of weeks really digs me or not.
We have NOT had sex yet. Our dates have gone really well so far.
I guess I get confused with all those dating books that say if a guy isn't ringing your phone off the hook, he just isn't that interested blah blah blah.
2007-03-29 18:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by Attorney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've read "The Rules" "He's Just not That Into you" and "The List"
They all say if he isn't calling you on a regular basis, then he isn't interested at all.
This is a very new dating situation so I just want to cut ties and avoid getting hurt if he really does not like me.
2007-03-29 18:30:14 · update #1
Personally I called my girlfriend several times a day (when I was not actually with her that is). I could not talk to her enough, or hear her sweet voice often enough!! We are now happily married and still we are both the same way. If the guy isn't calling you (or sending tons of e-mails) then I think he isn't as "hooked" on you as he should be!!
2007-03-29 18:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all our books tell us to play it cool and not keep ringing your phone off the hook. 2-3 days is typical, unless you have sex, then he should at least call you the next day and tell you how smoking HOT it was.
Maybe you should swap books with him so you can both figure out who is supposed to be doing what...or you could just try talking to him. (why does that option always seem to escape everyone???)
2007-03-30 01:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what dumb book said that?
Guys dont like to call, or talk on the phone. Im sure he does dig you, those books dont know ****.
2007-03-30 01:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually play it cool.....dont read those books.....do what your heart tells you....hold off the sex for a little while...if he still sticks around then he is into you...if not....its his loss...goodluck
2007-03-30 01:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know that i want to talk to my lady 24/7 if i am not with her ---- i dont "play" cool or hard to get or any games --- i am myself and i let the lady know i like her --- if she does not like me --- ce la vie
2007-03-30 01:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋