it just doesnt seem like he is satisfying me and i need some advice
2007-03-29 16:18:25 · 16 answers · asked by Tracy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he needs to swirl the tongue a little faster and dont just keep it on the one spot, he needs to move around a little bit and touch other areas at the same time, if that does not work, send me an email, I will show you how I can satisfy a woman..
2007-03-29 16:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him and let him know what you like and how you like it. it also would help if you are relaxed. have him spend more time on foreplay- a lolt of kissing all over you and not at the obvious places atleast not at first. play some soft quiet music and let him use a little massage oil and give you a nice long slow full body rub to relax you and get you worked up and really in the mood for sex. let the excitement and anticipation build instead of just diving right in. let him use his mouth and tongue all over your body and end up between your legs after first exploring everywhere else first then let him stay down there for an hour or so, i gladly would. the massage should help relax and sooth your body, then all the kissing and tonguing should help heighten your desire, and the if the attention you will get down there doesnt get you off by itself, hopefully you'll be so close that when you decide you want him in you, you'll both experience a great thrill. just dont be shy about helping him know what works for you. its more fun for me if i know she is enjoying what i'm doing for her, and a little guidance is always appreciatedif it will bring her fullfillment. hope this helps
2007-03-29 23:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him how to please you. If you aren't sure what you need to be satisfied then do some experimenting with and without him. Most woman don't get full satisfaction from intercourse alone.
You can even make it a game, tell him he can't "have his" until you beg him for it and he has to do his best to satisfy you with other parts of his body.
You don't have to be sexually compatible right off the bat, if you really care for each other and you can be open and talk about sex you will figure it out. Just be patient with each other, relax and enjoy the learning curve. A well trained man who's eager to please is priceless, but someone has to train them. No matter what they tell you, no man was ever born knowing to please a woman.
2007-03-29 23:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKay he is not satisfying you.. well so you do not embaress him... try to initiate the foreplay or sex..as your would enjoy it..show him what turns you on, and what will give you the maximum pleasure...or you could maybe buy a kuma sutra book, and look at different techniques and positions..and if you find one you like...say something like....ooooh that looks kinda kinky... Or if you wanna be blunt..just tell him...some what gently.. because we all know deep down they have sensitive fellings too... that things are just not sexually satisfiying..and that you need to spice it up a bit..
2007-03-29 23:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people will say hes bad in bed but hey were do orgasims come from not your gentles your brain. You cleary have lost attraction for him if your are attracked to someone you will be satisfied trust me and they will get u off. Find someone that you really attracked too and they will get the job done all the time
2007-03-29 23:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think he is the one that needs advice, dont you? ;-)
Show him. Take his hand and tell him you love it when he.....fill in the blanks. Tell him what you would "love for him to do to you."
Dont tell him you aren't being satisfied until you have taken the opportunity to tell him what you enjoy. Men really do want to sexually please their woman (one of the great things about men, I might add....) Give him the information and encouragement he needs to do so.
2007-03-29 23:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have the same problem hun. You just have to direct him be in control and show him and let him know what you want and where and how.so on.. I have nbeen with my BF a year and a half and have not yet once got off from him alone, I mean it all feels good but its sooo soo hard for me to get off. so I have this toy. its a pocket rocket. you should get one and use it while having s e x with him
2007-03-29 23:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too shy to give him a little direction while you are in the act. Tell him what feels good, & what doesn't.
If you need more foreplay then just tug on the proverbial leash if he starts to run ahead of you.
2007-03-29 23:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Is it a mental thing? Thinking too much can ruin any one's mood. Take a deep breathe and relax!
2. Is he not doing it right? Teach him and teach him NOW!
3. Are you just not physically attracted to him anymore? Sad to say, but you might need to move on.
2007-03-29 23:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,what do you think he can do to really satisfy you. Have you talked to him about it. Have you asked him to do you orally or tried anything new to make you feel better.
2007-03-29 23:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋