I just found out that there's this guy who likes me and I kind of like him. And his best friend is one of my good friends. But there's this girl who I also like who was dating someone, but just broke up with him last night. She said that if she was single, she'd date me. So, who should I choose, him or her?
I'm Bi. I just don't want to hurt anyones feelings. And I feel like I like her more, but he'd take me out on dates and stuff, so, I'm a bit confused on who to choose. ^_^
2007-03-29 15:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by FlutterbyEyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
choose the one u like more not to one who you can go out with......thats kinda selfish
2007-03-29 15:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by ellie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would start with the guy. Your female friend *just* broke up with her boyfriend. Why would you want to risk being the *rebound* girlfriend? If things don't work out with you and the guy, then, you can start seeing how things will go with your female friend.
OR....you can talk to both, tell them you aren't quite ready for a steady relationship, but would rather date other people. This will open you up to being able to date both while testing the waters for a relationship with each person at the same time.
2007-03-29 23:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by DH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say choose the one that you like the most and you think things are go well with because I dont think you want a boyfriend or girlfriend who doent really get a long with you.
2007-03-29 22:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by lilnena2256 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the person you have more feelings for...don't pick a guy just because people would think that's more acceptable and he'd spend money on you...you said it yourself "i like her more" so there's your answer.
2007-03-29 22:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by shellygrrlrox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choose the guy. not just for the dates or the money or whatever the hell. just because he is a guy. good luck anyway :)
2007-03-29 22:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose both, i am sure the guy won't mind
2007-03-29 22:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋