Im a 16 year old girl and I think I might be falling for my guy friend. One catch:he moved out of state last year. We still talk regularly, and he has made several comments about he wishes we had dated. He is my best guy friend and i know I am his best gal friend. he's coming down this week for spring break and he has told me that we should spend several days with just eachother. At this point I know what I want, and I'm pretty sure that he wants the same. Could this possibly work out?
2007-03-29 14:09:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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MY SISTER MET A GUY WHEH SHE WAS 15........HE LIVES IN SYDNEY AUS AND MY SISTER LIVES IN MELBOURNE!!!!!!!!! THEY HAVE BEEN DATING FOR 4 YEARS GOING ON 5.........YES THEY DID HAVE FIGHTS N THINGS DID GET A LITTLE BIT HEATED BUT LOOK THEY'RE STILL TOGETHER!!!!!! GO ON, GO FOR IT!!!
n things worked out nicely.......they both take turns coming out to see each other as much as possible and for as long as they could.
THIS COULD BE AN OPPURTUNITY FOR A MAGNIFICENT R/S.......YOU NEVER KNOW........GOOD LUCK HUN......X0X0X0X ♥
2007-03-29 14:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Hollow ✌ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion i honestly think that you should go for it, but make sure that you trust him and that you are close enough to understand if things don't work out. i once had a long distance relationship and it didn't work out and it was out of state and everything too. Sometimes you just have to make sure it is the right guy for the distance. Sometimes distance is good but than again sometimes it is the worse thing with relationships. All I can say is good luck, and if the relationship doesn't work out then at least try not to lose the friendship that brought you so close.
Good Luck! ;) Anna
2007-03-29 14:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest... NO It wont.. Let me explain.
Guys suffer from the syndrom I like to call wanting what they cant have... lol Needless to say he likes you now because he cant have you directly, you both feel attached.. and BLAH BLAH BLAH!!! In the end, he walks into your life... and when he finds someone that lives near him that he likes more.. he walks out.. .
Another problem with Long Distance has to deal with honesty. Its so easy to have a relationship with someone and have another one on the side and no one would know... He doesnt have to tell you anything, nore does he have to tell her anything.. And knowtice I say HE, Guys are more prone to want to have multiple girlfriends at the same time. In a way every guy is some what a player.
If I were you, i would talk to him.. But keep it as a friendship... If you want to try to make it work.. Good Luck... But I hope in the end he doesnt break your heart..
2007-03-29 14:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may or may not , there is nobody who give you 100 % on yes or no, after all you are very young and i believe he is also, things in life are changing over night sometimes, the best way for 2 of you now is to just enjoy your friendship as much as possible but be open minded ,this may turn either -or , time will give you the best answer to that question , just enjoy what you can for now
2007-03-29 14:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by katrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know til you try. If he is serious, then take the chance. The key to LDRs though is communication. If you don't make time to connect with each other, then you run the risk of losing interest in each other. You are rather young for such a serious commitment, but if you guys think it is worth the chance.....go for it!
Best of luck!
2007-03-29 14:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Merry 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it may and may not. Depending on how you both feel about each other! but don't give up on it! just enjoy the sacred time with each other it just may keep him coming back for more! it just maybe that he will honor and respect your friendship and really want to take it to the next level as a couple.
Best of luck!
2007-03-29 14:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by soccagal17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well It is going to be tough, since you guys arent around eachother...
2007-03-29 14:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its possible.....but both spouses have to be committed to the realationship if theres no trust,communication,or personality theres really no relationship.i suggest you talk to him about it then see if hes ready and talk about the main goals and the crossing line.
2007-03-29 14:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by K.L.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Unless one of you have a car, forget it. Even then its a real strain.
2007-03-29 14:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the week...yes of course...for longevity....nah
2007-03-29 14:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋