Ok. Say, like this girl thinks that her guy friend likes her, and he gives her all these signs sometimes. And to make her see if he likes her, can she go and make him jealous, like, spends more time on other of her guy friends than spending most of the time on him. And here is my question. How would he react on it, because,(All right, I'll say it,) I don't think my guy friend would care, I don't know. Or would he. How would he react to it, because, remember, I don't know if he likes me or not. So, that was my question, how he would react on it, please help me.Thanx.
2007-03-29 13:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by TempoBronze124 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't like him, but I just want to see if he likes me or not.
2007-03-29 13:59:54 · update #1
if you dont like him then why does it matter. his liking you wont change your relationship unless he acts on it in which case you'll know he likes you.
2007-03-29 14:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You never know how he will react. If he likes you and isn't too sure and.... sees you flirting with other guys he might get jealous and give up on you. Depends on how much he likes you. You need to cut through the BS and just lay one on him. A big wet kiss and see how he reacts. You obviously like him so let him know. don't torture yourselves and hurt one another with jealousy. Be considerate and true to your feelings. You can't read his mind so communicate. Once you do you will feel like a cloud has been lifted away. Remember, the first sentence is always the hardest then you will end up pouring your hearts out. Tell him you are attracted to him and have a crush on him.
2007-03-29 21:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by insurance specialist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Personally, if i liked a girl and she kept ignoring me then i'd probally leave her alone. Your best bet is to say or do something to him thats flirty, like wink or prolong eye contact...get it? do something like that and then see how he reacts. If he gets excited, happy then he sure does like you. But if he reacts with a look away and no smile he probally doesn't like you. Trying to jealous thing really only works to get him to like you, and when you do talk to him he treasures that time, formulation more bonds...Try being social w/ him and see how he reacts, its the best way to find out.
2007-03-29 21:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Shana,
May I say that you must be careful with people's feelings.
People are not objects, that you can experiment with their feelings...It's not fair to them, and you only lower them as Friends and people (not to mention you lower yourself)
If you respect your friends feelings, then please be honest and straight up, your friend will appreciate your maturity, honesty and respect for him.
Please don't think I'm coming down on you, OK?
I've made mistakes too, I learned from them, move on and share them with you so you don't make the same ones'
Best of luck.
2007-04-01 22:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by American Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games, tell him you like him if thats the case, if not ask him if he likes you. If you want to be subtle find out what he likes to do and offer to do that with him! Go hang out where he hangs out-unless it's in a bar or drug house.
2007-03-29 21:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Nunyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what you mean. I like this girl whose my friend and when she talks to guys it gets me jealous but thats not rite. Just spend time with him and tell him how you feel
2007-03-29 21:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dale M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like you are just learning proper English right, because like you keep repeating, like you do a good job, because like i tried to read your question, but like i feel sorry for you, because like I can tell you are trying to ask a question, but like I'm sure what it is. Like your parents should sue the teachers because like they failed.
2007-03-29 21:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him straight.you like him as a mate,
but that's all,nothing more.no body likes to get f*ckêd around and it seems like your wanting to play with his emotions(beware of Carma)
2007-03-29 21:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by pete c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys take like this is mah woman ill take him out!!!.. but sometimes if u hurt them instead of making them jealous they just leave.... so if i was you i wouldnt do it
2007-03-29 21:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by BBNAS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he did like you then he would probably not worry if you are with other guys --- he would want you to be happy --- and as you dont like him anyway (i would suspect he knows that) it would not worry him --- and then you accuse us guys of being cruel --- i wish him well and that he finds someone he will treat well and who treats him well
2007-03-29 21:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋