2007-03-29 13:43:56 · 24 answers · asked by Cincinnati Jack 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Until she is out of her current relationship (no matter how unhappy she is) stay away.
2007-03-29 13:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by pamomof4 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Remove her from the equation, and ask yourself why someone who is emotionally unhappy in their current affair would want to start another, especially, when that relationship has not yet ended. Are you seen as a knight in shining armor coming to rescue her? Was it a few romps in the hay that is prompting you to want to be with her? Will you not only have drama to deal with from her, but from her husband/boyfriend as well? Is she looking to you for financial support? How long has she been with this person? Will she drop you the moment she doesn't get her way? Think, man, think! Save yourself the grief and leave it alone. You will be healthier if you do!
2007-03-29 21:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
--Well if you are instrumental in committing adultery with her, whether your married or not you have made an adulteress of her!
(Matthew 19:8-9) “. . .. 9 I say to YOU that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication, and marries another commits adultery.””
--You are held partly responsible for her actions so you would be guilty of breaking up a family & commiting fornication!
(Proverbs 6:27-29) “27 Can a man rake together fire into his bosom and yet his very garments not be burned? 28 Or can a man walk upon the coals and his feet themselves not be scorched? 29 Likewise with anyone having relations with the wife of his fellowman, no one touching her will remain unpunishable.”
JESUS GAVE some strong admonition against getting too close to a scenario like yours. IT INDEED seems that you have a immoral yearning for her that may get out of control for either of you
(Matthew 5:27-29) “27Â “YOU heard that it was said, ‘You must not commit adultery.’ 28Â But I say to YOU that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29Â If, now, that right eye of yours is making you stumble, tear it out and throw it away from you...."
--THIS SIMPLY applies in that because of the powerful sexual drive, if you indeed are in her presence closely-- you stand a strong chance of seducing her and her wanting you beyond any stops!
--SO THEN the "maiming" that Jesus is referring to is DRASTIC ACTION that might mean you STOP seeing her IN any close way till she is FREE!
--Watch out!-- for the consequences are far worse that any cheap thrill! Especially with someone married.
--You can and will indeed ruin her family in DEPTH!
2007-03-29 20:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by THA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be a hypocrit if I said wanting her is wrong. But acting on that desire would be very wrong. Whatever is wrong with her current relationship is up to her to resolve. Going outside of her relationship won't fix anything. It's just wrong.
2007-03-29 20:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What guarantee , do you have that she is unhappy, sometimes, men say the same thing, and before you know it, its not true. Just be care full, you never know what can happen, especially to you.
2007-03-29 20:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by linda r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mat 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
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Mat 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
2007-03-29 20:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by tas211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should end her current relationship before having one with you. Not because she will burn in Hell if she commits adultery, but because it is the sensible thing to do. That way, there is no guilt over being unfaithful to her spouse.
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2007-03-29 20:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Weird Darryl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just to want her? Nah, nothing wrong with that.
Doing anything about it? Yup, definitely wrong. She needs to straighten out her own life before starting anything new.
2007-03-29 20:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by furryfriendlover 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. I've been there we had an affair. now there is nothing but heart ache and bitterness even 5 years later. oh wait. to want no but to act would be wrong
2007-03-29 20:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong for christians, as long as they remember to repent afterwards.
2007-03-29 21:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Fred 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋