my last question explain me and how i go about things because of that i damaged the one true relationship with this wonderful guy whom i do not want to lose.....but what confuses me he keeps on coming back even though i want more then he;s welling to give and before we even started this before we starteda friendship i told him he always admired him from a far and always had a crush on him.....he knew how i felt and still prosude it even deeper but he is making me feel its all my fault cuz he told me he didn't want a relationship and wants to live life day by day.....i'm so confused depressed its like i'm in this deep dark hole searching for just a little bit of light to excape.....my emotions are out of wack out of control, i never been so confused and scared in my life...
2007-03-29 13:23:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know enough to tell you what to do about him and hardly know a thing about you, not even your age... One thing I do know...
it's that you have to sit back
and have a cup of your favourite tea
or even better a fresh glass of water, you must sip it, not down it
and if you could
take at least 8 good glasses of it a day (of water) it would serve you real good.
Then get up and put some order in your environment such as your bedroom (if you still live at home)or apartment...
Just make it look and feel clean and orderly, even cute if you want to...
Then take a hot bath...
Put on some comfortable clothes such as PJ's.
Put on some "classical" music
and give it at least a week
before you even talk again about this subject.
When it comes to your mind and you begin to feel like you did when you wrote this, discipline yourself to go for a walk, read a book, or do something that you would benefit from...
If you have a Bible, read the Proverbs.
I finally got my son to read them and after only three chapters, he came and told me:
"mom! there's some heavy "****" in there!!! WOW!!!"
And he's been reading it ever since.
I'm sure you'd like it too if you tried. The wisdom of our very own Creator and loving heavenly Father is in there because this is what He inspired
his servants on earth to write for us.
He cannot lie and if you want to verify these 2 statements for yourself,
check up 2 Timothy 3:16 and Titus 1:2
When you decide to try and pray to the One who can help you with all things and never give you bad advice, you must do it to the Father, your heavenly Father and you must ask all things to him
but in the name of his Son Jesus.
It's very important or else it's like calling the operator for a person who lives in Japan
but you only have the first name...
You wouldn't get through...
It's a bit like that.
The reason for this might be more
than you can cope with reading at his point
but if you try it for yourself,
you'll see the difference
from any form of prayer you ever did before.
When you pray or talk to God,
you'll do it from your heart
but in silence...
Don't let the false gods hear you
as they can sabotage the outcome. They can't hear your heart's thoughts but the true God can...
I hope we'll have an opportunity
to talk again at another time...
I know what I am telling you
is the truth...
I can only hope and pray
that you'll at least gave it a chance.
You'll be getting better by the day
until then
and your question and ideas in general will make a lot more sense.
I guarantee it will be so.
2007-03-29 14:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe forget the labels that you are trying to place --- it looks like he does want a relationship but not the labels that attach to it ---- there is a question that i found to give you an insight --- what is more important your beliefs or your relationship?? when you answer that you will know what path to take --- best wishes
2007-03-29 13:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋