I know that most guys fear rejection. If a guy knows that he won't see a woman again (for example like at work if they will be working at different companies), will it force him to face his fear of rejection? I am talking about a guy that I work with who looks at me with such an intense look, yet who acts shy around me. He is such a gentleman, he goes out of his way just to hold the door for me. For example, one time he held the door open for about twenty people and I was the last one following all of those people room. I feel shy around him also. He jokes and laughs with his friends, but he looks serious when I come around. I wonder if he will get the nerve to ask me out since we may never see each other again when we both go to different jobs next week.
2007-03-29 13:11:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you'd like to see him again, why not tell him? Unless you're reading him totally wrong, I can pretty much guarantee he'd be thrilled.
2007-03-29 13:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may not get the nerve and he may not really be looking at you intensely..he may be looking at you and be in deep thought about something else entirely. Ask him "how about a cup of coffee or tea" after the function. This tells him you think he's worth your time, and yet; is only a friendly gesture.
2007-03-29 13:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be waiting for you to make the first move. If he is that shy he may not ask at all. So....why not just casually mention that when you change jobs next week you're sure gonna miss seeing him around and let him take it from there.
2007-03-29 13:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do YOU have the nerve? Because it seems like you also don't have the courage to act on your feelings. how is anything supposed to happen between the two of you. how about if you were meant for each other and you both are going to just let it go because you are shy?
2007-03-29 13:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you intimidate him. If you like him and he isnt making the first move, I see no reason why you shouldn't! The worst he can say is "No Thank-You" and even that wont really matter being that you are both leave for news jobs in a week. Take a chance, could be worth it! :-D
2007-03-29 13:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by lethalseduction85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out! If you aren't gonna ever see him again after next week, then it's now or never! Plus, if he refuses, then you don't have to look him in the eye again! It's better to find out then to always wonder what if...
2007-03-29 13:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
POP THE QUESTION AS QUICK AS YOU CAN!!!!!! trust me it will be worth it if he studders and he is scared then you know he likes you just tell him and then if yes kiss him for like 5 seconds and then tell him thank you and that you were afraid you would never see him when you changed jobs
2007-03-29 13:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by NigHt_SolDiR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gonna let the chance to have a wonderful man in your life because you are stuck on a belief that he should ask you out first. you know he's shy, why cant you ask him out? some people's shyness is crippling! so why cant you ask him out? are you shy? be the brave one, ask him out! good luck!
2007-03-29 13:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop
2007-03-29 13:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by laurenwickwire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him your number and tell to keep in touch. and say that it would be ashame never see him again.
2007-03-29 13:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋