How far to go on the first date?

Question

How about just a simple kiss?
Or how about going all the way?
What do you guys consider okay or too much!
how long should a girl wait until sleeping with a guy she just met?

BTW if yo want to consider age I a 28 year old woman!

Answer 1

depends on age, experience and the circumstances --- for me (an old fart) ive "gone all the way" in the first 10 minutes of meeting --- and with my lady i would wait for her until hell freezes over

Answer 2

At 28, you are old enough to know what you are doing.

Sex on a first date? I'd consider that a "whirlwind romance".
Hot and steamy sex, but it blows over in a few weeks (or days).

I'm slightly more conservative- kiss on 1st date, fondling on 2nd, sex on 3rd date (if all goes well). I'd be willing to wait a little longer for the sex- for the right woman.

Make me wait too long, and I feel like I'm being played.

Answer 3

A kiss on the first date if you like him.

A french kiss on the first date if you really like him.

If "he could be the one" then sex should wait until about two or three weeks after the first date.

If he's just in town for the night, and you are really really into him, then sex on the first date would be OK.

I've dated 30 - 40 women and had sex on the first date twice. I did not think of either of them as slutty, and it would not have had an impact on my forming a long-term relationship with them.

Answer 4

you should never sleep with a man on the first date, its sleezy. and how do you know thats all he wanted to begin with. get to know the person before you take that step.

Answer 5

a kiss on the cheek- if he is super hot
a hug- if he is average
can't dish it out too much and besides do you really know him

Answer 6

I don't even touch her on the first date.....Talk to her, yes....but thats as far as I go...second date...more talking...third....more talking....She has to want to touch me....at least enough to actually do it....otherwise I remain single....