my girl wants to be fwb. i want to but hey im not sure if it'll be the same. opinons anyone?
2007-03-29 13:02:55 · 21 answers · asked by William P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It won't be the same.
What she is saying is she wants to break up...but still have sex.
Trust me bro...your better off without someone like that as a girlfriend.
2007-03-29 13:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is this your girlfriend that decided this? or a friend? if its your girlfriend, then maybe you should think through things, like as in mayebe theres another guy shes with, and she still wants to hang on to you for "affection". if she's a friend, maybe shes just "testing the waters", which means she wants to do stuff with you, but not have a relationship. but know that if your friends, the fwb stuff may make your relationship only physical, and then when its done, the friendship will be dried up. you should take some time to think about this one. if you really care for each other, you two should be together, or just friends. best of luck!!
2007-03-29 20:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by the gurl next door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl who want to be friends with benefits is just looking for a good time. If you're willing to hang out and get freaky without feelings involved, go for it. But if you have any feelings for her as more than a friend, you'll just end up hurting yourself in the end. Tell her how you're feeling about it, and hope she can admit her feelings to herself, truthfully. It definitely won't be the same, and if you're really good friends now I don't suggest you do it, because if something goes wrong you'll never be friends again.
2007-03-29 20:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by garcia_lives86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't be the same, because there is the same physically but it's not the same mentally and it'll make it confusing feelings-wise. I wouldn't advise doing that it makes relationships (fwb's i mean) more complicated.
2007-03-29 20:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Emiline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're talking about your girlfriend, right?
Friends with benefits is fine if you know that you won't get emotionally attached to the other person....but if she wants to be fwb after being your gf then of course it'll be different. I personally wouldn't tbh.
2007-03-29 20:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Selz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want her for just the physical part of ur relationship then being fwb is great but if u want her as a girlfriend then its definalty not gona be the same.
2007-03-29 20:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by jman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got an opinion, GO GET AN STD TEST, you have know idea where shes been if she asking you this question. how many FWB does she have? think about it, she dont care about you, when she wants it she'll get, if you want to give it to her, thats on you and your a grown man to make a decision.
2007-03-29 20:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Formulated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough dilemma... it could turn out many different ways... but if shes the one that recommended it then everything should be okay just so you keep your cool... I wouldn't get too intemite with her... like having sex all the way, but it's okay to just play around every now and then. you guys could end up becoming more than friends... but just be careful so you don't ruin your friendship! don't do anything to offend her sexually in anyway... in other words, let her lead the way!
2007-03-29 20:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does FWB stand for Fun With Bunnies?
:)
2007-03-29 20:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Greg O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that what YOU want? It won't be the same at all. The people you may be seeing in the future may think that its weird or rude that you still sleep together, but if you find someone who puts up with your situation, its fine. (I wouldn't want to date someone who is still sleeping with their ex-girlfriend or friend whenever EWW)
2007-03-29 20:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by fanny gardener 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋