what feeling were you feeling when you thought of siucide or attempted.
Mine is ,
worthless
2007-03-29 12:55:39 · 18 answers · asked by Miss Casey 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
like i was out of control drowning in misery no escape from the pain ...death was callin my name welcoming me into a silent way out ...was bad glad its over and i am glad to be alive now!
2007-03-29 13:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by lil pit cat 71 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I felt like I was never going to be like I was before, and that really scared me and I didn't know if it would ever go away. That was many years ago, and while I still suffer from my mental illness, I have since realized and learned that whatever you are feeling, it will go away. You are not worthless, and when you feel that way, you are the only one who does. Please get help and reach out to loved ones. That is what helped me through my period of suicidal tendencies. Best of luck to you, and I hope you feel well soon. Hang in there, it will get better.
2007-03-29 21:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by HachiMachi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, "worthless" would have described how I felt. "helpless" and "hopeless" are others...
Words that I did not think of at the time were "temporary" (which is all any bad situation is...although I couldn't see that at the time.) In retrospect, I would have missed out on the best parts of my life if I had acted on it.
Another word I didn't think of was "selfish". I did not think for one second about how my self inflicted death would have devastated my mother, father, siblings, friends, co-workers... Or how it would have altered their lives forever. (Just isn't right to cause that much damage to other people- especially those you care about)
If you ever want to know how those close to you would feel, listen to the words of people who have lost someone they loved to suicide. It is a HORRIBLE thing to put anyone through. It condemns them to a kind of mental torture for the rest of their lives.
I told someone that I knew cared about me that I was feeling that way. It takes some time, but you have to reach out to someone for some help... And just look at all these people who DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU- are on here, typing their experiences and thoughts for you- feeling for you- because you are not worthless. We know it, or we wouldn't bother to write.
2007-03-29 20:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Val W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DeeLouise, this is for you: if you want to be constructive, try a different approach, you just came across as a jerk.
The most major warning sign you need to look for is the fact that you're thinking about suicide. That in itself makes you a risk factor obviously.
When I was 14, after a life of abuse from my mother and the men she was with, she kicked me out of the house, calling me names and tearing up everything I owned. I had always tried being better for her, so it wasn't like I was out of control, quite the opposite. I moved in with my grandparents feeling like no one even cared about me, that I was useless and only a burden on the world. I thought my life was only going to get worse, and I cut my wrists. Thankfully, I didn't cut deep enough to kill myself, and I was able to cover the cuts with long sleeves. What I should have done is talk to someone as soon as I started feeling like I wanted to die. There are many suicide hotlines out there, most can be found in the phone book or online. They'll just talk to you and help you find other options. Take care.
2007-03-29 20:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Informed 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No one is worthless, please reach for help, there are a lot of things to live for even if sometimes it doesn't seem like it. You don't know what the future hold for you! But you will never know if you give up... Things will get better, really!
Good luck to you, talk to someone about your feelings, family a friend, a priest or even a hotline.
2007-03-29 20:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie v 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I`ve almost done it but my best friend has helped me through it. I feel worthless, like a screw up, hopeless, i feel like a nobody. But I have anxiety and depression and am on medication for it so I am used to it. If you feel this way I suggest telling an adult you trust!
2007-03-29 20:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like your suffering if you do put yourself through something like this you may not want to do it did it in a way that was painful when you asked about 4 other question on this page you hurt, pain and fear. Think about what you are leaving behind a life its worth to find a life in this time of life. I am 16 and tried it but feared a future and my life. Please there is something to everyone to life please get some help
2007-03-29 20:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. i felt worthless and defeated most of my life and have thought of suicide many times in the past. it's not the answer at all. please talk to your family or friends and see a doc. it's better on this side. really. give yourself time to find that out. god bless
ps, you are not worthless.
2007-03-29 20:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt tired of life. I felt like I wasn't doing anything good for this world-- that I was holding everyone back. I wanted (and still do) want to make everyone happy and I felt like I wasn't making anyone happy, so why be here?
2007-03-29 20:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats exactly the word I would use to describe how I feel right now. Don't know how to get out of it though, but I can empathize.
2007-03-29 20:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by psa73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt like nothing i ever did mattered. it was like i had no purpose on this earth. i feel alot better now and im glad i didn't go though with it. you should get some help,email if you need to, or do what i do-write poems about my feelings.
2007-03-29 20:13:34 · answer #11 · answered by sylar's girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋