I feel like I'm at an all time low right now. I'm afraid that I don't have a chance with girls who are do exceptionally well in school. They were raised to try to get a prosperous future, and that includes marrying a successful husband. I'm so depressed right now; I just think it would be unfair to base love on the grades you get in school.
2007-03-29 12:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A diploma or degree does NOT make you intelligent... trust me. I am a junior in college and have met more idiots than I ever expected.
Continuing your education isn't for everybody. My brother's highest level of education is a h.s. diploma and he is VERY happily married (to a girl in the process of getting her undergraduate degree). Also being successful doesn't require a degree or good grades. It all depends on your definition of success!
Not all intelligence is learned through a book- life experiences help you learn too!
As a female, I will tell you that I do NOT have education requirements for guys I date. True- most of them are in college, but that's expected since my college campus is my only 'source'. I am not the only female who isn't obsessed with grades. And it's not like once you graduate girls are going to require a transcript in order to date them!
Be encouraged- Ms. Right is out there! And trust me- she won't care how well you did in high school english.
2007-03-29 13:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence matters to me. Let's face as a woman if you're going to have children, you'll be depending on a husband to carry the financial load. Why wouldn't you want a smart one with a good job?
Stop getting depressed & do something about it. It's not just grades it's confidence. Many men do well with a trade that doesn't require degrees. But you have to show ambition for someone to be interested.
2007-03-29 20:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure it does. It's always best to date people on your intellectual level. Otherwise, what will you have to talk about? It's not really the grades that count — it's the conversational skill. As for prosperity, most girls I know are preparing to earn their own, instead of waiting for a man to take care of them.
2007-03-29 20:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
intelligence does matter --- but what do grades have to do with intelligence??? --- grades are only an indication that you can memorise and regurgitate to order --- intelligence is succeeding in spite of good grades --- do a search for successful people that never finished high school (they now employ people with degrees)
2007-03-29 20:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks fade u need more for a life long relashionship
2007-03-29 19:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by imneiflim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it doesnt matter as long as they have some common sense
2007-03-29 19:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋