Now im only 11 here people k?
well in 4th grade me and this boy, chase, were bf and gf. and we were for 2 and a 1/2 months but then we stopped hanging out as much. he thoguht i didn't like him anymore and then at the carnival he cracked a confetti egg over my head and said "we're breaking up". I pretty much hated him for a couple months and over the summer but when i came bak to school the next year i liked him again. my friends and i were at a sleepover and its 4 of us and geuss what, we all like him!!! so we call hima dn it turns out he likes...MY FRIEND Sloan! I was totally crushed and the other 2 girls ended up liking his twin brother. but after chase and sloan broke up chase told m,e he didnt want a bf until 6th grade,, and then he 2 weeks later goes out wiht my friend bianca. he said im nice, but he alays choses my friends over me. r my friends better than me?? Is it because im tall? I dont know if im pretty but everyone says i am. Any advice here??
2007-03-29 12:51:16 · 18 answers · asked by Kerry S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh! You poor thing. I think that you just need to move on, as hard as it may seem. This guy Chase is totally not worth it. He should like you for who you are. Your friends are so NOT better than you! Remember, he was with YOU FIRST! Things can get a little dicey if you and all of your friends like the same guy. I mean, it all turns into a big competition, and Chase as the trophy!
Those two years were so not wasted, girl! You enjoyed it while it lasted, right? Not every relationship ends up as being together forever. At least now you know that he totally isn't your type and is so not worth it!
He didn't even try to recognize your feelings. He broke up with you without talking about it at all. He just cracked an egg, and poof! That was it?
Girl, this guy is just a heartbreaker, and so not worth it. And please, do NOT plan revenge of any sort. DON'T try to make him jealous. That all ends up making matters worse, believe me. Been there, done that! Walk away with dignity, you are so much more better than that.
Best of luck!
p.s.... Don't listen to any of these people who tell you that you're too young and all that. You're never too young for a little fun!
2007-03-29 12:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Mischa S. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youngin just move on u still have long ways to go there will be more boy u will see and like. If u know that u are pretty stick wit it and never put ure self down no matter what people say about ure be strong youngin u got a long way to go
2007-03-29 20:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by saniyamack14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to young to be thinking about boys. The best advice i can give you is to learn from your experience and do not move to fast. You will have meet alot of guys along the way and you will eventually forget all about this boy. Focus on something you can benefit from, like your education.
2007-03-29 19:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel that strongly about this person maybe you should jsut ask them straight out if they like you or not. Having feelings for someone that makes you feel good is never a waste. It's a blessing! And I hope you get those feelings again for someone that cares about you and you never know maybe this person likes you but didn't think you were interested. Thats why you should just ask them.
2007-03-29 19:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cyndia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 11 stop being so worried about boys and concentrate on school. That is going to help you more than worring about a boy.
2007-03-29 20:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by arieal g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brethe.this is a lot to handel..don't mind other people..you can have the deep emotinail complexety of a mature person....age doesn't matter...why don't you confornt him about wanting to get back toghter or talk it through about you not spenidng enoguh time didn't mean you didn't like him...it seems like a big misunderstanding to me....just let him know...and if he still turns u down..most probably you'll be turned off by him...
2007-03-29 19:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by DJJDB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because you guys are young. it doesnt mean your friends are prettier than you, and it isnt because you're tall. it just means that he just wants to try different things. try moving on,keep your mind off him for a while and focus on other things. You'll have a lot more boy problems to worry about as you get older.
2007-03-29 19:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by GC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what it is? (Oh, I know because you are 11, DUH! lol)
Forget about him. You can do better. There are plenty more fish out in the sea.
I bet the instant you hook up with someone he is going to like you.
But anyway, you are only 11, dont worry abou it.
2007-03-29 19:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey little girl you shouldn't be worrying about those things right now,cuz at your age you havent expeirience half of yur life right now..so just enjoy be a kid someday you met the right men to your life but right now he's now ready maybe someday youll met him someday start a family get old,,yur not even in your teenage years........right now you should be worrying about your studies..ok!!go study..
2007-03-31 06:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by jaymar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, he's a heartbreaker dont even go there. I mean its nice to love them adn all but if he doesnt want you ur gonna have to accept that but if you cant hve them, its always fun loving them more even if they dont like you back
2007-03-29 19:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Soccer Rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋