I just had a dozen women that seemed to seriously claim that they liked shy guys.
In another question I saw them saying that they didn't really like "bad boy" types but really wanted a decent guy.
Are these women being honest? If so, why is yahoo answers the only place that women like this exist?
2007-03-29 12:48:53 · 24 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are lying. deep down inside even i want the rough neck.
2007-03-29 12:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yahoo! Answers isn't the only place these women exists. Most women out there want a decent guy (though the specific qualities they are after certainly vary from woman to woman). What we *don't* want is a Nice Guy. The guy who complains that no one every wants him even though he's sooooooo nice and wonderful but shy, when in fact he's just as much of an entitled jerk as the guys he thinks women want. He feels entitled to female attention because he does certain things that are considered "nice", but *only* because he think's they'll get him laid. If he were genuinely kind and caring and considerate, he'd have women all over him (in fact, they might find themselves suddenly shy around *him*, thinking a guy that great couldn't possibly be interested in them). If you have to go around declaring how nice you are, you probably aren't.
Obviously everybody falls for somebody who isn't really all that great at some point or another, for shallow reasons or because they were very charismatic or because it was just a bad decision. This doesn't mean it happens every time or that that's the sort of person they're really looking for.
2007-03-29 19:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by squishycat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They exist. The problem women have, is the bad guy always comes up first and the good guy hang behind. The vain female ego gets saturated by the rush, and starts believing what they say. When the relationship is over they think to themselves, "why didn't I go with so-and-so" but usually don't act on it. They will either slow down and find a decent guy or follow the same pattern as before. Sorry if this is too deep but the female mind is more complicated the the male mind.
2007-03-29 20:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They dont only exist here. It takes time to find a girl special and no a real relationship is not over the internet. Girls shouldnt like u because your shy or bad boy. they should tell u they like u becuz your sweet and your super nice and they have a blast with u..and maybe cuz yoru cute but that sjust an adition!
Just because you can find someone on the internet doesnt mean u cant find them in the real world. Theres deffinetly a girl out there for you, but sometimes girls act diff. on the internet to get attention and to have a good rep. but other girls r truely honest!! Just find the true girl!!
2007-03-29 19:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women such as myself would rather have a shy guy that an irresponsible, immature bad boy..shy guys are those who usually care more about the girl than just getting her in bed with them...
as for only finding them on yahoo anwsers you just have to look for us..sometimes women are hard to read and they like you but you may never kno until you ask..most women are honest..you just have to ask the right question to learn the truth...
hope this helps..
2007-03-29 19:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're ugly ones who go online, mostly. Ugly people pretend to care more about phony personality traits because that's all they got going for them, and it makes them feel better about themselves to say and hear that sort of thing. Reaffirms their self confidence when they pretend the reason they're not with the studs is because they're deep and all that BS, when it's actually because they can't get one. Sour grapes. The internet attracts the shy and lame people, and they like people who are like them. It's not just yahoo answers, it's all over the internet. They're not the normal attractive girls you'd be attracted to in real life. Girls in general pretend to be how society thinks they should be though, so they pay lip service to sweet sensitive nice guys and still go off to **** the badass studs.
2007-03-29 19:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answers are completely different...
because everyone is hidden behind a monitor.
Their true identity is hidden,
There for it gives them some type of release
and allows them to speak their mind more openly
and passionately.
Hopefully I could convey that to you in a simple manner.
All woman love men,
There are tons of women on Yahoo from all over the world,
So your sure to get different answers.
every one is different.
2007-03-29 19:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by It's Just me.... Kiwi :) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What women say and what they do are 2 different things. Once you learn that, you're on your way to gettin some! No women on this planet want a 100% nice guy who is nice to them 100% of the time. That kind of guy gets cheated on and then dumped. Don't be that guy.
2007-03-29 19:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The answers are out there in the world too. You just have to PAY ATTENTION TO THE CUES. Its not that we necassarily like bad boys, we like the confidence they have in themselves. Girls dont like pushovers. But that doesnt mean that we like @$$holes either. But may I ask the same question: Why do guys say they want a "good girl" but are only attracted to BI#che$ ? So, whatever you answer to that question is, take that answer and apply it to yourself as a man.
2007-03-29 19:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Bird 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, they are not being honest.
Women say things like this on the net, and they say it in real life too, but you just try to be a "NICE" GUY, and you are finished.
Women also say things like, NOT INTO HEAD GAMES.
They say these things on the net, on dating profiles, etc, you'll see it, or they will come right out and say that they are not into head games, etc
Women outside of the net make these claims as well,
BUT, THINK ABOUT IT,
REALLY THINK BACK TO A TIME THAT YOU HEARD A WOMAN SAY THIS...
NOW, as you are thinking about it,
Can you remember the same woman, playing more games than you could ever imagine???
DON'T FALL FOR THIS...
All women want a CHALLENGE...
What women say, and what they want are two different things, so NO, to answer your question, DON'T BELIEVE IT WHATSOEVER...
I'll give you an example here and now...
They done a study...
They found 10 women who wanted a man who would treat them like a queen, and smother them with love, and be really nice to them and SHARE THEIR FEELINGS, AND TO BE A SENSITIVE MAN, etc...
So, they found these women, who said they were looking for a nice guy, bla,bla,bla...
LOW, AND BEHOLD...
THEY GOT 10 really HUNKY MEN (models)
These guys are what women would consider DREAM BOATS...
So, they set it up so it looked like a coincidence, that these WONDERFUL HUNKY MODEL STRANGER CAME INTO THE CHICKS LIFE...
All ten women were ga,ga, at first, and couldn't believe that they were dating such a hot hunk, etc...
BUT, GUESS WHAT...
The models, done everything that the women said they were looking for...
Commication, sending gifts, flowers, and telling the women they were falling in love, and being their for her, and calling her, and on, and on...
Guess what..?
Even though the women were attracted to the guy at first, and even though the guy was the hottest guy they ever had, etc...
The women got tired of it fast, and started ignoring the guys calls, and finally breaking it off...
SO, DON'T BELIEVE THE B.S YOU READ ON THE NET, OR IF YOU HAPPEN TO HEAR IT IN REAL LIFE...
You know what Sigmund Freud could never figure out???
And he could never come up with the answer too?
WHAT DO WOMEN WANT???
You know why???
BECAUSE, THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THE HELL THEY WANT...lol
Anyway, here is advice to carry with you for life...
WATCH A WOMANS ACTIONS...
A woman could tell a guy that she would like to hang out or get together, yet, she is always busy, etc...
If you watch her actions, (the smart guy realizes) that she is not interested...
The not so smart guy, (and we have all been there)
keeps holding out hope, etc...
Anyway, don't listen to what women say on this subject,
THEY ALL WANT A CHALLENGE, A MYSTERY, A GUY WHO TEASES THEM, AND TREATS THEM LIKE A LITTLE GIRL...
A GUY WITH BACKBONE...
IT TOOK ME ALOT OF WOMEN, AND YEARS TO REALIZE THIS...
ANYWAY, YOU WILL DO FINE WITH WOMEN IN YOUR FUTURE...
JUST HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF,
AND REMEMBER,
YOU NEVER GET REJECTED BY WOMEN, YOU JUST FIND OUT IF THEY ARE WORTH GETTING TO KNOW BETTER...
2007-03-29 20:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Q&A 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it makes you angry this much then stop looking for answers here and go out into the "real world" and get a woman. Geezzzz, why all the tears???????? If you whine like this to women in the "real world" then I see why your relationships probably don't last. Stop crying!!!!
2007-03-30 06:09:27 · answer #11 · answered by CeeCee19 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋