am telling you that if you read this... even as a Doctor... you will gasp for air. My husband and I have been married for two years. In this time frame... my mother in law has flown our children out,... behind our backs,... had the children call us and say terrible things... call up her son and beg him to leave me... with 6 children, OMG the list is WAY TO MUCH TO GET INTO! My husband was so Angry at her he almost once ran his own mother over with a UHAUL TRUCK. She has refused to see her two new grand-daughters, she has offered to pay for her sons divorce and sent her friends to California to get her son... offering him a plane ticket and wanting him to leave me... two new babies and 4 boys. She has used my step daughter as a weapon against the both of us. She called my husbands ex-wife and got her involved... when only 6 months ago... the whole existence of my marriage to her son... my husband... she was paying to have his ex wife hung out to dry in court. I dont have the time or the
2007-03-29
12:43:00
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I cant take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WROTE THIS TO DR>PHIL ITS SO BAD!
2007-03-29
12:44:14 ·
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I dont have the time or the energy to write all down that has occured. Its a ever living hell. I PRAY TO GOD... that you can help aid this situation. THIS IS INSANE and everyday of my life and my kids lifes are haunted by this woman. She is the worlds BIGGEST MEDDLER and I promise you that you will shake your head in pure disgust as to the things she has done. I am not innocent of being mean to her either. I have written her emails that basically tell her that I hate her for what she has done and that I never wanted her around. I am scared that if she continues... our family will split up. PLEASE, Dr. Phil... help me to figure this all out. I cant take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-29
12:45:38 ·
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OMG it sounds like what my mom went through!! My mom hated her mother in law (she was a b i t c h)!!! We had to move so far away and we lost everything because of her... Except your husband understands whats going on... My dad was in complete dinial(Sorry abot spelling).. I was getting so so sick that i landed in the hospital..your mother in law sounds alot like my mom's and beleive me my dad was married twice and my grandmother totally wiped his ex out... when the divorce was final all he was orderd to pay for his son was 35$ a month.... She even offered my mom 25$ to leave my dad..my grandmother always told me i was ugly and fat and that i should have never been born... SHe was horrible... I hope everything goes okfor you and your husband and your kids.... My grandother finaly died in "05 and now everything has been ok... I HOPE THINGS GET BETTER SWEETIE
2007-03-29 13:13:54
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answered by FrozenFlowers 6
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Flying your kids where behind your back????
Firstly, I'd have gotten the police involved in that .... she has no right taking your kids anywhere without your permission!!!
As you said there is an aweful lot going on here and I'm not Dr.Phil but .. I'd say the best thing you've got going for you is your husbands mutual aggrivation and support.Try and keep him away from the UHAUL rentals for a while though ..... that would be bad ..... maybe ...lol.
Other than the UHAUL option , I'd say do your best to shut her down by not responding. The greatest pleasure for her is knowing that she's getting to you and possibly succeeding in breaking up your marriage. Make your home peaceful by force ! Of course that means resisting the nasty emails.No phone calls , if she calls you , as soon as you know it's her don't say a word ... just hang up. If she shows up at your door, block her way and tell her she's not welcome until she can learn to be resectful. No visits with the kids and explain this to them as best you can without putting gramma down. They need to see you reacting in a positive way in order to understand what gramma is doing is wrong.You aren't taking them away from her to be spiteful but to protect your children from her bad attitude that is hurting your family.Try to spend more time as a family to reconnect and bring you closer. The closer you are the less chance she has to interfere. Talk to your husband and get him on board with what you intend to do as his reactions must be the same ..... no tolerance and consistancy is key here.It may take some time but it's worth a try . In the meantime you might want to try a good antistress formula just to keep your sanity ..... Vitamin B complex .... seriously ... it helps !
Take care and good luck to you and your family : )
2007-03-29 13:32:55
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answered by uncle louie 5
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wow this is horrible and I'm sorry you have to deal with such crap, some women just can't let their son's be MEN. You and your husband should sit down and figure out what you can do to fix this and keep her out of your relationship. I mean if the mother in law is this crazy I'm sure you're not the only one that has noticed so at least you'll have people back you up in the family I'm guessing. Tell her she's not welcome anymore until she decides to grow up!....
2007-03-29 12:58:38
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answered by Jamester 4
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It sounds to me like what you need to do is move, or change your phone number or something. Find a way where she can't get in contact with you anymore. I hope she isn't coming between you and your husband, its a horrible thing she is doing and I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-29 12:47:18
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answered by Mommy-To-Be 3
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OMG! My aunt is like that with my cousin's wife but not that extreme. I hope dr. phil contacts you and help you out.
2007-03-29 12:49:38
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answered by JJ 2
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my god sounds like a friend of my wifes mother in law crazy *****
2007-03-29 12:51:58
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answered by Anonymous
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tell her that she isn't coming near you kids and that she cna't cntrol you. You didn't marry her. You marrien him. Tell her to but out.
2007-03-29 12:48:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Move on and don't give her this power over you
2007-03-29 12:47:52
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answered by zen522 7
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I'm very sorry to hear this...Hope it all works out well in your favor;)
2007-03-29 12:50:13
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answered by mostly_forfun 1
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Are you guys living together? If so, please move out. Let her know she can't come by uninvited.
2007-03-29 12:49:31
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answered by Kimora Miranda 3
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